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Northwest · M
You have to ask yourself what motivates you to tell her. Reading through your posts here, it seems as if you want to cause him a work of hurt. The thing is, if you tell her, you will be causing her a world of hurt as well.
You were part of this, so half of it falls on you, and it's not fair to put her through pain, because the two of you decided to have an affair.
I think she deserves to know, so she can get rid of him, but that should probably come from him. As in, he should ask for a divorce and spare her the pain.
You were part of this, so half of it falls on you, and it's not fair to put her through pain, because the two of you decided to have an affair.
I think she deserves to know, so she can get rid of him, but that should probably come from him. As in, he should ask for a divorce and spare her the pain.