I Have a Question For Married Men

Thank you North.She is on pain killers all the time .For a man to sext his mistress while in the bed with his wife ? She has to be knocked out every night .The first day i saw him he told me he dont have sex with her ,shes not interested in it . we have been in an emotional affair first then became physical ,He knows how I feel about him .He keeps it on ,he keeps saying I beg you please be patient with me .