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Am I overthinking things???

Ok so I barely got like 4 hours of sleep today. My hairs a mess. And I didn’t put on any make up. So basically I look like trash 😂🙈

I walk into class.. and I walk by this really cute guy 🥰 ( we rarely talk btw) And he stops me and tells me that I “look good today” and he gives me like a soft smile.
I take my seat and instead of paying attention to the professor..

I’m like why did he say that I look good? I actually look like shit.. 🤔 So when I actually dress up and look good he doesn’t say anything… 😒 wtf 😤

Kinda like in that Hamptons episode of Seinfeld where the Pediatrician tells Elaine that she looks “breathtaking”… but then he says that same expression to that ugly baby 😂🙈
Chaoshead · 22-25, M Best Comment
Elite Seinfeld reference

huskyguy89 · 31-35, M
Heh in my experience when a woman thinks she doesn't look great "hot garbage" is usually their description. They look ten times better than they think. I always have thought hair with a little "messy" like as in kinda tussled around a bit. Usually looks ridiculously hot. It was a compliment if nothing else..:) maybe he will be checking you out from now on to see if you look that way again. ;)
@huskyguy89 understood lol
Ima dress up everyday for like a week and see if he says anything 😂😎
huskyguy89 · 31-35, M
@SW-User hehe just enjoy it regardless. Glow bright for yourself too, feel it. :) Let us know if ol' dude notices
@huskyguy89 I’ll make sure to update y’all 😆
Thespis · M
Well, I'm not him so no way would I be 100% I know what was in his mind, but I can guess. He probably thinks you're cute every day, and today he got the opportunity/courage to tell you. You're beautiful with or without the makeup, he's probably flirting with you, didn't notice that you hadn't done your hair and makeup (let's be honest most guys are oblivious), or he noticed you didn't, but is still very much attracted to you, perhaps even more so.
@Thespis I’ll definitely try and “look good” from now on then 😂
Thespis · M
@SW-User Do whatever you want to do. Do your hair, and your make up, and pick clothes based on what will make you happy, comfortable, and feel confident. Guys are going to notice you and find you attractive either way, no need to dress or look anything for anyone but you.
@Thespis yes ima try an experiment this coming week lol 🤔😆
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I always look like “trash” and some guys prefer women who don’t put so much effort into their appearance.
Convivial · 26-30, F
Maybe he enjoys the feral look
Pretzel · 61-69, M
some guys (back in my day) prefer a more natural look.

or (and this is legit) some guys are intimidated when a woman looks too good. the term "out of my league" comes to mind.

and the fact that you think he's cute? well cute people have insecurities too
Teslin · M
Maybe he likes the "natural" look better.
I know that I do.
@Teslin hmm… maybe huh 🤔
Teslin · M
@SW-User Absolutely
Tukudo · 41-45, M
May be you have mindset that makeups only makes you beautiful 😀.
@Tukudo no but it does help 😅
Tukudo · 41-45, M
@SW-User okay
Dave531 · 31-35, M
You probably put on too much make up and look fresh when you’re without them.
I think you should just accept the fact that you look good
teenrob · M
sorry but... wasn't he simply joking?
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
He likes the natural look
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
You're overthinking it.
It could really just be an honest compliance.

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