@WanderingHelplessly i dont know i single feminist.. its almost like its a funded media driven devide and conquer campiengn..

@WanderingHelplessly I think most of us woman are referring to specific men we’ve dealt with in our lives and it’s in humour. We really don’t think all of you are bad lol. I’m sure some of you men have dealt with jerk woman too. But you don’t hate all of us either.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout *sigh* Well, I was having a good day. I think maybe I will go to bed now, and I'll take a break from SW

@SpectralMourning DON’T

@BlameBrett Is this post about me?

@SpectralMourning clouds in my coffee.

@looking4thesun lol

@Neuman then order a pizza lol.

@JimboSaturn my wife says i only have 2 faults....
Everything i say and everything i do

@Gumbodidlo been unfair i think

@tornado58 bless you sir 😁

@GoFish I was expecting a list, not an existential crisis.

@BlameBrett life ***** with us lol

@WanderingHelplessly you’re a good one :)

@Lostpoet that’s where I keep my vegetables I buy and never get around to eating.

@BlameBrett You U.K?

@Lostpoet Canadian, UK’s little cousin. Lol

@EndlessHorizon The bear is always the safer bet lol.

@Sequoia51 Straight to the point. No notes.

@BlameBrett No accusations, no defense.

@BlameBrett There are manuals somewhere

@BlameBrett that's why they invented air horns - and tazers!

@Pretzel and the pepper spray.

@Thodsis 🤡🤡🤡

@BuzzedLightyear That's an emoticon that I haven't seen before.

Is three clowns a good thing?

@Sidewinder that only covers the last few years though. What was wrong with you all before the AI.

@Sidewinder
"ArtificalIntelligence" is one word, not two.

Too bad you shot yourself in the foot and lost the contest... 🧐

@BlameBrett no instruction manual is a blessing and a curse. It's the fun of getting to know oneself and also one another if one is willing. But it's frustrating when there's a misunderstanding and you really want to work things out. But the fact that we change as we age and have more experiences also keeps us guessing over and over again. The strangest phenomena is that once we have what we think we want, what we think we want now changes too. It doesn't just happen with Toys and things. It happens with circumstances/parts of relationships.

@Mindful I appreciate this response, and I get what you’re saying. I’ve just been through it the last few years, so at this point, I feel like I need the instruction manual before I even consider trying again. Tbink I might be better to just not try again. No instruction manual required :)

@BlameBrett That's the natural response to pain. When we hurt a muscle we stop wanting to move it. It's natural fear response to pain. It requires physical therapy and movement to heal. I'm guessing affairs of the heart work similarly. I know I don't want anymore pain in my life and I'm starting to close myself off socially in the real world. I am turning to THIS site for my social interaction. Here I get a safe distance and some closeness at the same time. I am in a healthy marriage tho. Not perfect, but happily married. People think marriage is the answer to everything. It's not. People need people. I hope you find your person, but be on th lookout for more than just your one person. Find friends and if possible connect with family.

@SUPERVlXEN That sums it up lol. And thanks for the new song.

@BlameBrett
We don’t need to complicate things, one word… right!?

@RebelRaven

@RebelRaven mmmhmmm

@Sutten So should try turning them off and on again?

@BlameBrett That only works if they have an operating system. 🙂 I should really stop now. 🙂

@Degbeme I have to give you credit for being brave enough to enter this thread though. Good man lol

@BlameBrett I`m not stranger at poking fun at myself. ;)

@MellyMel22 Oh absolutely, dishonesty is an equal opportunity employer. But we’re just picking on the men today cos I felt like it lol.

@DancingStarGoddess yes, those are the words.

@JohnnyNoir Thisiscompletlynewinformationtomeididnotknowthat.

@BlameBrett wellnowyouknow

@JohnnyNoir thankyouman.

@Magenta yes.

@ElyssTTTrucks So men are just out here being too nice now? What a time to be alive. tbh I don’t really understand the term simping. Lol.

@BlameBrett Look at many of the comments anytime anyone posts a nude woman pic. That does not entirely explain simping but it does expose a certain mindset. Born out of thirstiness and happy to toss aside personal pride and self respect.

Now, I have commented myself on some nude woman posts.
But there are some who are on just about every nude woman post and always saying the same sort of things.

@JimboSaturn Honestly, I think we all are.

@Unefilletrescurieuse you can do more than word if you want to :) I just thought one word was easy lol it’s not a hard rule though.

@BlameBrett I best not… they’d all hate me. Lol

@Sharon3948
Yes, I think you may end up in trouble with the Word Police for using way too many words in your answer.

@swirlie Spanking coming for sure

@Sharon3948
For sure! A good spanking always precedes a debriefing.

@Kodel :) pick one you’d like to elaborate on? If not that’s okay too. Good list.

@BlameBrett I'd personally go with the first one to elaborate on. A lot of them tie into a kind of response men have to how we can be treated by some women. Purposelessness is one of the main ones that is strictly about how men conduct themselves irrespective of women.

In this day and age, it's a lot harder for men to find a purpose they can pursue wholeheartedly. Back in the day, things were a bit simpler. As a result, there wasn't as much deliberation about what skill you were going to master. These days, with all the information young men get, oftentimes it leaves them a bit dejected and unsure about what role they'd like to take. Overall, men are less influenced by societal pressure and are more guided by our internal compass. With how complicated that can be to establish without treading on someone's toes, it can lead to a very apathetic worldview or potentially overly damaging worldview. One of the biggest factors is lack of male role models whilst we grow up. Many men grow up without fathers in the home or without stable male figures to guide them towards their own definition of what it means to be a man. Thus, we end up in a state where many men don't know who they are and subsequently can't find what they want. One of the most valuable skills I would encourage young men to learn is introspection. Learn to ask yourself why you think the way you think and be willing to change it if you stumble across a reaction you don't like. Ultimately, the decision is yours to structure yourself on what principles you like and don't like. It's integral for men to have this foundation because everything else we do in life will be built from this framework.
Once you have that internal compass, use it to find something you can obsessively dedicate yourself to and pursue it wholeheartedly. Purpose is the one thing that keeps men alive above all others.

@Kodel You make some really good points about purpose and role models. I wonder though if finding purpose is really harder for men specifically or just people in general these days. I agree that introspection and taking responsibility for your own behaviour are important skills. Probably more useful than blaming an entire gender for your problems 😂

@Prettybratbi1tch there are some good ones out there.

@Kiesel where do you start, right!? Lol

@RebelRaven reasons are endless!!

@Unefilletrescurieuse exactly!

@swirlie Well, at least we’ve established there’s a problem.