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@pixiestix Same!!

@pixiestix That is a good life style choice. I wish I could grant it for you.

@Gibbon Gotta to get yourself a plan - a role.

@Captain Have a look at my profile including about me. I'm still lingering in that grief state of mind.

@Gibbon It must be very hard but someone or group out there needs you for some reason to help in some way. My aunt is 99 and she still knits stuff and donates it to schools churches and social homes. Eveyone can offer something and it brings them meaning..

@Captain got married in 1960 , 1964 had 3 kids,,i was 23 my wife 20,, in 10 more yeares 1 more kid made 4, in 1984 mover to tennessee jobs every where we both got a job in 5 dfays, in 5 years bought house 5 acres, all down hill from there,

@jackrabbit10 Yes but thats the difference in America isnt it, there is upward mobility for the fortunate. Youd have to be a footballer to have that much money in the uK ! Anyway I wasnt fortunate and married older not young. Thats the other big difference.

@YoMomma Thats an honourable ambition

@Mindfulness Make youself a plan

@silkydrawers Each to their own I guess..

@Captain Every single post that person makes is about their "femininity".

I imagine the neighbors enjoy seeing some 70 year old grandpa running around in saggy drawers.

@Punches No I agree, thats why I wouldnt judge.

@jackrabbit10 Then your are blessed

@Captain my wife and i worked bought a house in the country houses were cheap at the time ,5 acres, she passed away 2024 every thing was paid for, I never married saved my money drive a 1996 ranger truck, paid for,dont make bill pay cash or do with out,,,,,frees you up,

@jackrabbit10 Wish we'd been in the position to do that but we decided to have kids - late in life (she was early 30s I was early 40s) and its turned out to be a disaster for us. Still you make your bed and lie in it.

@Royricky09 I did. Typed too fast

@ReneeT I identify with that fault