What can make you change as a person in an instant?

@Primnproper no judasses in your life i hope

@popmol not so far as far as I know…😁

@Primnproper how do you change? do you go primnvile, uninhibitednproper or full on deboucherynunseemly?

@popmol myself I take no prisoners whether it’s betrayal by a friend or someone even closer.

@Primnproper Both fear inducing and tantalising, Although my sense of preservation and logic dictates i should not poke the sleeping bear that is you!

It would be a sight to behold though! seeing Primanproper turn to ragenviolence!

@popmol I don’t do violence, I don’t even get revenge, I just get even.

@Primnproper it's all a perspective! What's even from your view might look like a devastated field filled with the smell of despair, death and fear!

@popmol No I don’t like it if you trust someone and they abuse that so I will cut them off without a second glance or another thought and go being my happy self as though they never existed. The loss is theirs not mine. I’m very loyal so they lost more.

@Primnproper true you do seem like quite the pillar, one where you can be supported by and enjoy your time with!

But a wound inflicted by ripping out trust is one that's hard to heal, repairing it takes twice as much time as the trust originally came and almost never to the point it was at originally.

@popmol I admit it takes a long time for me to trust but I’ve learnt to do it and take that leap. I never hold onto stuff though, I choose to wake every day with a smile and joy in my heart not hate. No I’m not religious, don’t judge me. Lol

@Primnproper you don't have to be religious to do that! its a good state of mind to have, and even religious people who say they are good people and follow the religion where those things are stated don't do it.

it's a good thing. the world would be better if most people could be like that.

i mean i have such intense hatred i'll probably never be as happy as i used to be.

@popmol i hope you are as happy as you used to be one day.🙂

@Primnproper unlikely, i mean i'm bitter and frustrated and angry. i jsut hop i find someone i can love and put all my energy in and ignore the rest of the world!

@popmol you sound a little like my husband and he found me so never say never..lol

@Primnproper yes but in this new age where am i to find a lady such a primnproper herself! a lady of such value and quality, wouldn't chosoe to be with one as sad as me!

it would be an utter waste!

@popmol well my husband would disagree and that he was the most sad & lonely so it happens and as there are many primnproper ladies out there id say never say never.

@Primnproper well i hope i find one then :)