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GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
On people no. On products yes.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions well i mean if they are on people that would be at some kind of slave auction! seems like a horrible idea!
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol i mean labels on people that that put on them selves. Like im the "boss" you have to do what i say (no. Your a person. Sit down). Or he has been branded a looser so noone talks to him. (No. Your a person. Stand up for your self.) A box of cereal, i want to know everything in that box cause its about to become a part of me.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions well if he is the boss he should act like one but one that says" i'm the boss" is mainly not saying that for being the boss but because he feels better than others! and the loser well kinda he is because majority decides but thats cruel so i wouldn't do it unless there was a valid reason!
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol i believe you follow a boss because you have to. You follow a leader because you want to. Its up to the worker to decide how he wants to be treated. Usually i let the person in charge know how i feel about them by watching their actions and comenting on it. They get praise if they are a good leader. If they are a manipulative boss i support the men or rally the crowd. And for a looser, raise the spirit of the man so he is no longer effected by judgement if his self esteem is strong enough. Valid reason or not we are all human beings. We are stronger when we work together.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions i meant a reason why he is a loser like he is a dick and he is being shunned, than its deserved and i don't care for them if its just some dude than no.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol i see your point. But that guy is labeled a looset for being a looser thats just going to make him react in a more hostile way continuing the cycle. If his spirit was raised and he was taught compansion by people who he thinks are his enemy then he would change himself to follow a better crowd.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol most people are only dicks because they are wounded and defending themselves with pride. They dont need to be like that when met with respect.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions yes but unlike you i don't think some people are salvageable! if you for years felt better than other people for no particular reason will not learn unless thy are shown to be trash themselves and if they aren't learning they should be put in the ground.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions if they pick on the easiest prey, and ruin others lives by it, they NEED to be CUT OFF. cut off the misery at the SOURCE!
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol i get what your saying. Those who are labeled as unsalavagable just means they are given up on because their wounds are too big. And i agree that no one wants to deal with that and they dont have to. But rather than bashing the man making it worse. Ignore them. If they cause problems for you still then remove them. But fighting fire with fire turns an asshile into a serial killer.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol or rally the people around him to come up with a better solution on how tondeal with him.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions well i was the point of ridicule from those wankers so to me and they ruined me. so my opinions might differ from yours but i'd be the serial killer that kills the killers.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol i understand. My problems far outweigh those of the people around me. Iv had to edit my own psychology to even survive this far. I have come close to murdering a bunch of people but instead i reinforced my own morals and decide to raise the people around me. This has granted me wisdom through dealing with my hardships. Not everyone is strong enough to take that route and end up shooting up a school because the pressure is unbearable
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions well such is life. luckily i'm afraid of hurting people so i try killing myself instead :p
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol thats still the wrong approach. I have many scars myself but you dont learn anything if you give up rather than fight it. And when we are in that state of mind we often dont realize who we hurt or how we change the people around us by abandoning them.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions my idea was how can i hurt others if i'm dying myself or unhealthy.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol my idea is let go of the hurt because theres enough suffering in the world. Me being hurt just spreads it to others.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions well i'd only spread it to other who do hurt never to those who don't.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@popmol picking whos good and whos bad is why we are in this mess. If we try to treat everyone equally and with respect when possible, in a generation or two the world might change. Killing off the people we dont like makes us look like genocidal psychopaths to others in the long run leading to more war. We have to stop fighting hate with hate. We are only killing ourselves.
popmol · 22-25, M
@GuyWithOpinions well if theres only 1% of the people left we'd have the best only left :p