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SW-User
Rush into a relationship with someone who's controlling and then stay because you think he's micro managing you because he loves you and your self esteem plummets because he subtly makes you feel useless over time and you think you need him just to survive, and the longer you stay, the harder it gets to get out. Then you have kids and he's really got you.
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@kelseyM Just watch out for the signs in the beginning, because he'll seem as nice as pie first... then little things will happen like, he'll ask you all the people you saw when you went out with a female friend, tell you to be home by 10pm and text him, then start telling you people you are close to who may see through him are not trustworthy, ask to see your phone and freak if any male friend are on there and demand you delete them.. tons more... And you haven't even moved in together yet lol. Essentially he'll be jealous and mask it as caring about you.