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Yes. We are blessed in that our feelings can change and we can create what we want in our lives. If something isn't working, then by all means, change it up, to where you [i]are[/i] happy in life. I've recreated and invented myself lots of times. That's the beauty of being alive. We're meant to be happy, and that happiness is not defined the same in each one of us. We weren't made to be copycats. We are beautifully unique!! You don't [b]find[/b] happiness; you [b]define[/b] it! You create it. It's whichever way works for you. We're not meant to be people-pleasers, either! Nor doormats! Nor friends with control freaks!