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I Am Bored

I don't know what to do. The past few months I've spent my time with my boyfriend. Like we live together so Im always with him. But lately it feels like I'm too needy. I wanna watch shows with him and all he does is scroll through Facebook/text/ifunny. And now I feel like I'm also doing most of the chores. Picking up the yard, picking up trash, folding laundry, doing dishes, cooking. And sometimes when I'm "in the mood" hes not, and won't do anything it feels like, but when hes "in the mood" I let him get away with it. And I'm starting to kinda feel distant. Like even now we are on the sofa together and hes on his laptop. And I'm bored. I Love him so much. I just want to keep him happy. Idk if I'm moody/needy due to stress and lack of sleep or what.
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kayoshin · 41-45, M
Get hobbies. Set boundaries (divide chores). It sounds like you don't have a life and expect him to entertain you, it's extremely tiring after a while (it's endearing for a month or two until you realize this person is allover you ALL THE TIME!). If you get a life you'll have more meaningful time together even if it's actually less time spent together.