Maybe I'm not worthwhile
Maybe I am. I don't know. All I do know is that she's always too busy working, and that knowing me is probably too much for anyone to handle
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Some people don't know how to turn off work or have demanding jobs. Some people are easily stressed and like to have all their work done before relaxing or having fun rather the procrastinating.
Some people get caught up in everything they have to get done or do that there is little to no time for others for weeks sometimes. It's just how there priorities fall. It's a them problem not a you problem. They could be friends or dating someone amazing, or average and would treat them all the same. Some people are just like that. Expectations for finding time to be together can be tricky.
I used to be someone who was "always too busy". I liked being busy and filling my schedule, I have fun being busy. Most of it work. Drove some people crazy, I had to learn to open up my life a little more to be more flexible. The person I dated at the time always had to convince me to take an hour or two off a week to go do something relaxing or fun together. That man had alot of patience and persistence, thank goodness. Lol.
Perhaps the person you are thinking of struggles with something similar? Talk to her about it and maybe figure out expectations. Like as long as you guys want to date, you guys can spend at least an hour or two together a week? Or figure the best time to text each other?
Some people get caught up in everything they have to get done or do that there is little to no time for others for weeks sometimes. It's just how there priorities fall. It's a them problem not a you problem. They could be friends or dating someone amazing, or average and would treat them all the same. Some people are just like that. Expectations for finding time to be together can be tricky.
I used to be someone who was "always too busy". I liked being busy and filling my schedule, I have fun being busy. Most of it work. Drove some people crazy, I had to learn to open up my life a little more to be more flexible. The person I dated at the time always had to convince me to take an hour or two off a week to go do something relaxing or fun together. That man had alot of patience and persistence, thank goodness. Lol.
Perhaps the person you are thinking of struggles with something similar? Talk to her about it and maybe figure out expectations. Like as long as you guys want to date, you guys can spend at least an hour or two together a week? Or figure the best time to text each other?
