I Will Answer Any Question You Dare Ask

I'm a not anything close to being visually attractive. But when I work with people at school or at the lab, they really get intimate after a few months. It's how my wife and I got together, now I should be monogamous, but it's tempting as people who would have ignored me before they knew me are seeking undue intimacies from me as they get to know me. Wish I had figured this out in high school. I thought I'd never get a mate because I wasn't among the really popular guys.

The response from me would first off tell you I am with someone. I have a live in B.F. One day I was chatting with a guy friend in F.B. and the situation became a bit tight... being he invited me to his place for the weekend. I then had to explain I have a partner. Yes I am attracted to you but I do not play games with those I care about. Had to cut off all communication.
Unlikely you wouldn't ask me. because of my age. (65)

Showing your jealousy is not always a turnoff. One time at Karaoke, a neighbor saw me and we started talking. My BF came over and in a strong voice said, "I think that's enough. Time to move on."
This action surprised me. For my guy to react like this guy was hitting on me?
Still I learned his possessiveness was showing me I was HIS. Never has anyone acted possessive in my presence.
Now if I speak to a neighbor or friend, it has to be a female. My only thought might be, because I was laughing, he thought I was flirting? May never know.

YOUR Opinions?

Not if I know nothing about you. First I have a BF and he's big enough to get you to flee away. Go out with someone 1st site? Okay I have done so in my teens. But not now, I'm too settled.

I'd be like no dude I know i'm sexy and all but i'm not gay I'll stick with those sweet girls

I'd say no, but I have a valid reason. I'm married 💍

I am not there alone. I have a date with me. One whom I care for deeply. He is also quite possessive. I don't want you to be hurt.