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Hello everyone, I've been trying to induce lactation for a while due to fetish reasons, however recently I've been told that my fear of pregnancy is most likely affecting my ability to induce. I know that fear and no wanting something is a separate emotion. As a result I would like get rid of my fear of pregnancy, any suggestions? I still don't like kids, I've been anti kids since I was 10 (19 now). I'm okay with them when they're not mine. To me kids and pregnancy are an extension to womanhood and not a necessity. I wish to treat my future patients like my children rather then having to come home to some. I'm a selfish person, I'd rather buy me nice things then buy kids toys and pay for school. An unwanted kid is very rarely treated well anyway, I'm certain that if I somehow was forced to have a kid it would sense my hatred of the situation. I have trouble understanding them and getting along with them.. And pregnancy, kids all that jazz always take up a lot of time and money. I know pregnancy is needed for survival of the species. Though to be honest humans constant population expansion causes quite a few problems globally. It can cause so many health issues (some permanent and life threatening e.g. diabetes), is hard to get rid of (abortions aren't 100% effective sadly), it messes up your pussy by permanently stretching it and ruining the pleasure of sex. Though I heard kegal exercises can help that. The pregnancy and result of it is financially damaging and sometimes mentally damaging. It would mess so many things that I want in my life up. I would rather just play with a friends kid then I can give it back. All the benefits, none of the risk. I've always wanted to be married to my job and travel when I can. I love to learn, that's why I'm on here. I know I can learn things from pregnancy and kids, but I'm still afraid of pregnancy. Any suggestions or anyone who feels the same?

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LucyAndEddy · 61-69, C

Whoever told you your ability to induce was being affected by fear of pregnancy needs to take a course in human physiology.

Typically you need to mimic pregnancy via taking estrogen and progesterone along with prolactin. Then you suddenly quit the estrogen and progesterone to emulate the hormone drop of birthing while continuing the prolactin and pumping.

Are you sure you wish to subject yourself to the emotional swings and health risk that this would involve?

SDFORME · 22-25, F

@LucyAndEddy I currently am unable to go on that medication (domperidone anyway), plus I've been trying since April last year. Succeeded a few times, but lost it. I've been through those mental health swings, and I've studied the health risks, the benefits outweigh them in my opinion. She's not wrong about the mental aspect (though it may not necessarily be the fear of pregnancy), even when I had the milk I struggled with supply. You need to have the right mindset otherwise let down will not happen. You need oxytocin and prolactin in order for that to happen. In many studies where the women didn't want the child, she suffered low milk supply.

Ajz59852 · 36-40, M

My sister is pregnant

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SDFORME · 22-25, F

@Ajz59852 Sure, why not? Just know that I don't go on here very often.

Ajz59852 · 36-40, M

Ok. Added you to my friends list on here.

MinMan80 · 41-45, M

@SDFORME the crime rate dropped in the US also it was actually noticeable, and now they want to get ride of it.

jackson55 · M

Get yourself a breast pump, sometimes lactation will start if you are persistent.

SDFORME · 22-25, F

@jackson55 I've been trying since April last year first with a Spectra S2, switched to both hand expression and breast pump in September. Hand expression is supposed to be better. Mental blocks can also apparently prevent the milk from coming. I did have milk once, but I was on domperidone which I can no longer get.

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