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Nobody who cares about me is harder on me than me ..
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@BrandNewMan so you’re critical because you care about yourself?
@Bunnydisaster77 Not really what I mean ..

My inlaws are meddling pains in my ass, my soon to be exwife only cares about herself .. since separation .. never a kind word, no credit no matter what .. basic haters

My parents, my sons, my brother all care about me. None of them are as harsh a judge on me as I am on myself

RosaMarie · 46-50, F
I'm my own worst critic. I think this is a balance. Someone never hard on themselves likely never grows as a person. Someone too hard on themselves can end up paralyzed in analysis or in fear of failure.
I'm mostly critical but that's not necessarily unkind
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@PepsiColaP I also think that, depending on the circumstance ofcourse
Critically. I should probably just suppress self talk and think of others.
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@SinlessOnslaught hahaha I feel that completely! Why do you think you do that?
@Bunnydisaster77 Not sure, I just do.
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Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@helenoftroy2000 that sounds..interesting xD care to tell me more? o.o
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Always critical
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@BridgeOvertroubledWaters care to share why? No pressure :)
@Bunnydisaster77 let me know if pm is ok for you
HumanEarth · F
Kinda right down the middle actually. My brain deserves equal housing rights to
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@HumanEarth that’s fair I kinda think the same
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
I am never kind to myself in my head, ever.
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
Pretzel · 70-79, M
I'm very abusive. Sometimes out loud
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Pretzel why is that?
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@Bunnydisaster77 I guess I know I need a firm talking to
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Pretzel lol…sorry don’t mean to be insensitive! That was funny tho my dark sense of humor x.x I think kindness can work wonders sometimes too tho! :)
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
Critically, I despise myself in my head.
@SlippingAway Noooooo
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@SlippingAway what makes you despise yourself?
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
@Bunnydisaster77 there is a lot of reasons unfortunately my list is long
Magenta · F
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Magenta any reason in particular?
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
My brain hates me but I'm trying to teach it to be nice
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@SkeetSkeet fortunately at least three of the five voices in your head like you, right?
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@SkeetSkeet why do you think it hates you?
DDonde · 31-35, M
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@DDonde pls feel free to share why if you want to :)
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Critically for the most part.
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Mudkip any particular reason?
lovingdead · 36-40, M
Critically all the way
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@lovingdead care to share why? No pressure :)
lovingdead · 36-40, M
@Bunnydisaster77 to avoid a long rant which has a good chance to possibly explain nothing....ill toss out bullet points.

Kindness is for the deserving.
I feel i am not,
But the rest of the world is though.

Also kindness doesnt produce results
My proof....pretty much everyone if i try to bring up something logically, kindly, etc....im ignored, momentarily placated, forgotten, etc. (But everyone gets to make their own choices for life)

So if i want results i need to minimize the margins for error. (If you want to change something you have to take responsibility for it)
Ducky · 31-35, F
I hate myself, so...
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Ducky what do you hate about yourself so badly?
Ducky · 31-35, F
@Bunnydisaster77 I’d rather not get into it, but to answer your question, just everything.
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Ducky fair enough. Thanks for the comment :) have a good weekend!
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
I thankfuly do not have a tendency to beat myself up mentally. I mean I get upset and down on myself or mad at myself over shit but I get over it after a snit.
Oneofthestormboys · 56-60, M
Critically.
What’s your answer to all these then?
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Oneofthestormboys my answer to the question or to the peoples?
Isoloa9ation · 51-55, M
Im extremely hard on myself. Often for no fault of my own. I beat myself up for shit i had nothing to do with!
Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@Isoloa9ation why do you think that is?
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Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@WaryWitchWandering why is that?
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Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F
@jshm2 Awh well, I don’t know him… 🤷‍♀ so no judgments here. care to share why you think that way though?

 
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