Do you feel narcissistic people are born with the predisposition to be that way…….

@fun4us2b My father was and two sisters are. The only way to have a peaceful life is to block them out of it. They are very destructive in so many ways and the damages cannot be reversed. Every one that I’ve ever known end up to be lonely the older they get and it is pathetic. Have worked with one too and it’s the same tactics and patterns of behavior. Doesn’t matter what culture or country they are born in it’s always the same thing.

@cherokeepatti sad and true. Sorry you have had them so closeby...

@fun4us2b Each sister lives about 2 miles from me. When I was fighting cancer I didn’t want them to know & stayed away from any place I thought they’d be. Picked up groceries a few times or had someone else do it after I ordered online & paid for them, things like that.

@fun4us2b
Oh no. You are very mistaken about that. They know exactly what they're doing. They scheme how to hurt people and manipulate them. They "groom" their victims. I've got a horrible narcissist in my family. They know exactly what they're doing. And if they can't manipulate their victim, they'll leave that person and find another one to control. They have to have that narcissistic fix. Even Dr Phil said that even he doesn't know how to help a narcissist or cure them. He said they are not fixable and to stay away from them. I know they cannot be trusted at all. They are master manipulators and they don't care who they hurt.