If your friend is smoking two packs a day, drinking a 12 pack of beer, and knocking down 3 big macs a day........

are you doing them a favor by telling them the world should love them just the way they are ??? are we helping them jump into an early grave by telling them everything is gonna be okay ??

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fun4us2b · M

Seem like a lot of people feel you could actually lose a friend by bringing this up by trying to help them...I never experienced this but must be true based on these answers. So with that - I guess the best thing is to just be there, trying to get them to talk or vent...