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16 hours round trip

She wants to come back to go to my oncologist appointment with me. It's just a follow up so I'll probably (hopefully) only see the doctor for like five minutes. My heart loves the gesture but my brain wants to ask her what the hell is wrong with her. I told her it's a waste of time but she won't listen to reason. She'd better learn to embrace sarah logic sooner rather than later. 馃え
My husband had been diagnosed with a brain tumor on Sunday, they operated to remove the tumor Monday morning and I was by his bed when he woke up.

He said, "You don't have to come see me here. We can stay in touch by phone."

I said, "Have we met?"

It's a difference in style and don't kid yourself. She loves you, but don't expect her to buy into Sarah-logic.
@SooperSarah Thank you and I hope the sane for you. A lot has changed since then.
@Mamapolo2016 I'm doing well. I'm in the one to two year window when relapse is most common but so far everything is good.
@SooperSarah Excellent.
NewBeginnings779036-40, F
Because she loves you.

If it were for someone I loved, there is no place too far that I wouldn鈥檛 go to be there for them.
sarabee199526-30, F
Accept the gesture with grace and a smile. She's doing this for you. 鉂わ笍
@DrScissorhands I know. It's just the whole heart vs brain clash that I forever struggle with.
Zonuss41-45, M
This is usually the average time for a typical road trip.
You already know what I think. Love you btw. 馃枻馃
JaggedLittlePill41-45, F
Let her be what she needs to be for you ..because she feels uselss otherwise.

Sarah logic does not apply! 鉂
Im sorry? You want to stop someone being with you ?
I dont get it, what am i missing ?馃し鈥嶁檧锔
@SooperSarah ahhh.
I see your point .
But maybe its an act of love ?
Maybe its their manner?
@OogieBoogie I'm sure it is. I've never had someone go to these lenghts for me so I'm not sure how to handle it. And I'll admit my life is dictated by my brain more than my heart. I have this need to be able to rationalize everything.
@SooperSarah nah, i get that .

It's hard to get used to kindness if you've never had it.
iamonfire69636-40, F
She cares about you and I think acts of service are how she shows that she cares.

You are worth the trip and she thinks it鈥檚 important. So too bad so sad, you just gotta get used to it.

You deserve this 馃挅

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