What makes someone weak? What makes someone strong?

My definition of weak is someone who generally and genuinely believes that they cannot get what they want out of life. A strong person is someone who generally and genuinely believes they can get what they want out of life. Do you think this definition is too simplistic?

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RebelFox · 36-40, F

HA I want my parents to be alive, does that make me weak?

To be real friend, trying to label everyone and define them from there is only gonna hurt you and everyone who knows you. You’re like the government. You’ve created sides and decided the terms FOR people. I like you, but your mind isn’t developing original thought, just oppressive, overused, recycled junk from being raised in a country led by generations of greedy old white men.

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@RebelFox

Surely that isn't your one and only desire, is it?

Everyone's reality is subjective; if i wasnt interested in others thoughts I wouldn't be inquiring.

You're so focused on criticizing, on poking holes in the premise, that you are missing this opportunity to contribute your own thoughts on this topic. Thoughts that I am sure are unique and valid.

It's poetic, in a way.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User No.

I am bored with defining everything. Labeling and giving no room for growth. I understand you are forming your own thoughts and opinions as is natural for someone your age. I have nothing to contribute other than my feelings on you grouping characteristics into sides. Your thinking tends to be black and white. I’m not stupid and I am paying attention regardless if you don’t like my response. I always refuse labels, good/bad, right/wrong thinking. I’ve lived. I’ve traveled, I’ve met so many broken people and lived my own life enough to know you can’t catergorize people. We aren’t meant for that.

Some people call me weak for crying about my dead parents, some strong for carrying on and raising my son alone. Neither opinion means anything to my reality. Defining it only negates the truth.

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@RebelFox

Defining it only negates the truth.

And what is the truth? That there is no strong and no weak?

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User They exist together fluidly without scrutiny. So maybe, no, they don’t exist. Maybe none of these labels really matter. I don’t know your truth, you don’t know mine, so don’t separate us 🖤

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@RebelFox yeah we are very different. I'd still clap dem cheeks though 🤷🏽‍♂️

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User You wish 😆 You’re having a baby with another woman though now 😆

SW-User

@RebelFox Hey! Don't wish that on me!

I may be bad with nuance but clapping cheeks is pretty straightforward; pump and pump until something gushes. Real simple. I'd do a good job 😏

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User Everyone knows women get preg when they ambush boners 🤷🏼‍♀️ 😂

Well hun I appreciate it, but I prefer men with more experience that do more than pump…

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@RebelFox not if you lift them up and glaze the donut 🤷🏽‍♂️

That was a joke lol. I could do far more than just pump you. I'm real good at sex, maybe not as experienced as you but I'm very experienced for someone my age. A disadvantage to being a man is we have to work harder to get our numbers up than you fairer folk do. But add the experience I do have to my strong physicality, anatomic assets, and my general nastiness, and you'd be in for a good time rest assured.

But, you are free to believe as you want...that won't change the truth though 😉