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Oh, man! I'm almost 27 and I still didn't figure out how exactly I'm supposed to answer "Where are you from?"

Usually - "I live in (name of place)
and have been here (amount of time)".

They might ask where you were born, raised, etc, in which case say those.

Some people take that question as microracist - as in implying that you don't belong here. That might be so for some, even unconsciously.

But in reality people have been moving around a lot ever since Marco Polo and the Renaissance. Or even before, depending on how far back in history you want to go.
We are all immigrants or descendents of immigrants in one way or another.

In one way, only indigenous peoples could say they really belong on their original lands.
In another way, all of us belong wherever we make our home and contribute to everyone's well-being through our work.
deadgerbil · 22-25
Where were you born?
SW-User
@deadgerbil Saudi Arabia, but if I answer with that, they're going to deny me pork and I'm already done with people denying me pork just because I look Muslim
deadgerbil · 22-25
@SW-User they won't accept any clarification afterwards? They just automatically cross out pork or can you explain that you aren't Muslim?
SW-User
@deadgerbil Usually when I'm meeting someone new and they ask this, they expect a short answer. When I try to provide an elaborate answer they usually don't understand and assume things in bad faith, such as that I'm not being straight forward or whatever
Fishy · F
Them: Where you from?

Me: Over there 👉
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
meJess · F
You won a swim race, doesn’t matter where the event was held
SW-User
For me it depends on where I am when I'm asked. If I'm asked in England then I say my city. If I'm asked abroad then I say England. My ethnicity doesn't throw in much confusion as I'm a generic white dude.
SW-User
@SW-User It's way more tricky when you're born and raised outside your native country
NinaTina · 26-30, F
I just say my momma🙄
SW-User
@NinaTina But I wanna get blocked after the 5th message, not the first
NinaTina · 26-30, F
@SW-User hahaha

 
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