Do you believe you deserve goodness or love?

To those that DO:
What are some ways why you believe goodness can be for you , or IS something you may deserve?
I am still wracking my mind and I can't find reasons that I believe. 😞

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SW-User Best Comment

Yes I believe I do.
Simply because I exist.

When a child is born, it doesn't question whether it deserves or not..it simply takes.
We have all these beliefs imposed upon us and it is these beliefs that need to go.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@SW-User I love that. I do believe people deserve love (for myself is another story..based on toxic beliefs like you said). I am reading a book that says just as you stated..we all are worthy of love simply because we exist. We do not need to EARN love..then its not love is it?? And as a baby we wouldn't say oh that baby doesn't deserve love..so why do we believe we do not because we are older? Very toxic beliefs I would say. I was raised by an evil mom..(narcissist x 100). It is VERYYY hard now believing I am worth anything.

SW-User

@Coralmist there was a time I held a lot of such beliefs. It's taken a lot of inner work and energy healing for me.
If you're reading a book like that, then you must be looking for answers too. I sincerely hope you get them.
Thank you for BC. 🙏🏽