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AuRevoir · 36-40, M
I think the stereotypical dude who does this thinks that if they say they have a high body count it makes them seem desirable by lots of different women, because women supposedly don’t give sex away as easily, but voila, they did it for him..
And again with the stereotypical mindset, towards women, well they aren’t supposed to give it away so easily so why does she have it so high??
That’s their mindset, so if a girl does it more she’s more cheap.. but if a man does it he’s more valuable and he must be something special cuz women surely must want him..
And again with the stereotypical mindset, towards women, well they aren’t supposed to give it away so easily so why does she have it so high??
That’s their mindset, so if a girl does it more she’s more cheap.. but if a man does it he’s more valuable and he must be something special cuz women surely must want him..
TheGreatLeveler · 31-35, M
It's not really the same, because it's easier for women to get sex than it is for men. There for women aren't respected for doing something that isn't exactly an accomplishment. Historically, men are also hardwired to be put off by getting into a serious relationship with a more promiscuous woman, due to the higher chances of the offspring not being his own. With modern day birth control and parental testing that may be a non issue nowadays, but the hardwired feeling remains the same.
Fishy · 36-40, F
@TheGreatLeveler maybe, but I still don't get how some guys can't seem to accept that there are women out there who are turned off by guys who brag about high body counts
They like to insist that women love that type of thing
They like to insist that women love that type of thing
I'm not exactly sure I understand what you're saying either. How does that justification work?
I wouldn’t know. I lost my virginity while horseback riding
Northwest · M
What’s a high body count? Assassins?
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
What is a high body count?
Fishy · 36-40, F
@BackyardShaman Body count = people you've intimately slept with
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Thank you for clarifying, for me I don’t ask, if I like her I like her regardless of body count.if she doesn’t like my body count I understand and I see and agree with your main point, it works both ways.@Fishy
SW-User
A bit like you I think each to their own. Personally though, I think the fear of a body count says more about you than it does about the person with the count.
Fishy · 36-40, F
@SW-User Yeah ngl, I'm kinda repulsed by guys who brag about all the women they've been with
I mean like, if I were to date someone, it wouldn't be them 😂
But this is coming from someone with a pretty low body count too 😬
I mean like, if I were to date someone, it wouldn't be them 😂
But this is coming from someone with a pretty low body count too 😬
SW-User
@FishyI get you. I neither brag about it nor apologise for it. It's a bit like having a tattoo. I made my choices and I'm happy to live with them.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
You're talking about sex, not kills, right?
Fishy · 36-40, F
@LordShadowfire I wasn't originally talking about kills.... but I'm listening 👀
SW-User
As a female I find a 'high' body count a turn off