It pains me to say this but I wish some transwomen put more effort into passing.

Granted there are all types of women out there and not everyone is glam like myself but I wish some transwomen put a little more effort in. Sometimes I just want to say oh honey no let me help you with makeup or clothes. I'm still a work in progress myself but I do put in the effort and I think I pass well.

Maybe I should start my own program to help women like me or maybe people might find it too insulting and shut it down.

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SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F

"passing" is such a personal thing. Not going to lie, I wish I passed, but no matter how close to female I look, the moment I speak it's obvious.

Granted, I only really aim to pass for myself. As long as I feel like a woman, that's all I really need. I'm never going to be gorgeous, but I never needed that.

MizzBella · 31-35, T

@SarahAndSamantha I feel you on the voice thing. The moment I speak it's clear what I am. I wish i could afford to fix that issue but sadly cant

SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F

@MizzBella lol, even if i could afford it, I can't fix my voice. I actually need it for another aspect of my life that I can't risk screwing it up (metal vocalist lol). It is what it is. Maybe I should learn sign language :P