To be fair, conservatism does have its good qualities. Mainly when it comes to preserving important values. But you have a good point on the lack of empathy part. That’s why a lot of conservatives are assholes that are never too bright.
As for socialism, it’s been proven that certain types of socialism can work very well. Conservatives like to list Russia and Venezuela as examples of why socialism doesn’t work, but they always conveniently overlook the numerous examples of thriving socialist economies. I’m not going to say I’m totally for socialism, just that I can empathize.