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Should teachers and schools be allowed to keep information about a student's pronouns or gender identity from parents?

Poll - Total Votes: 33
Yes. The child's health and well being are more important than the parent being informed.
No. Parents should get to know this information even if that puts some kids at risk.
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Personally I think that right now it is for a child's safety that their choice of pronouns or expressed gender identity not be relayed to the parents.
Why?
Because if the child wanted their parents to know then they would tell them. The child might not feel comfortable telling their parent just because it's awkward but it could also be a much more substantial fear of repercussions, punishment or even harm.

You have only to see how some people in this debate advocate hate and even execution to understand why it is worrying to out a trans child to certain kinds of parent.

It's just so gross how this issue has been weaponized by the political right to get cheap votes.
Just following the ol playbook "If you don't have policy, target a minority" lol
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AJS30 · 31-35, M
You don't get to choose your sex/gender and as such, you don't get to choose your pronouns. Male = him/he. Female = her/she. If a kid has a mental illness, especially one that increases their risk of suicide, the parents have every right to know about it. Schools are theoretically supposed to teach kids not promote or enable degeneracy/mental illnesses/absurdities.
spjennifer · 56-60, T
@AJS30 And yet, Christians want schools to teach Creationism, talk about "absurdities" but bet that you're Ok with that, right?
@AJS30 you're right that you don't get to choose your gender. Other than that it's just a load of ableism, hate and over simplification of reality.
LordShadowfire · 100+, M
@AJS30 Hey, shitface. Nobody's talking about choosing genders. This is talking about affirming what people already know to be their truth.
onewithshoes · 22-25, F
@LordShadowfire
We needn't descend into name-calling here,👆🏻 and this thread is all about what school staff should or shouldn't do when students choose genders for themselves that do not match up with their previous records or obvious sex.
Now forgive my mischief, but I can't help but wonder what kinds of opinions we would be reading here were this about racial or species identity, which questions have indeed also plagued educators on occasion.
@onewithshoes republicans have falsely claimed species identity is questioned. It's not.
spjennifer · 56-60, T
@NerdyPotato In the case of certain Repuglicans, you DO have to wonder what "species" they emanated from? 🤪
LordShadowfire · 100+, M
@onewithshoes
We needn't descend into name-calling here...
Okay, but repeating hateful propaganda is cool? Propaganda like this?
...and this thread is all about what school staff should or shouldn't do when students choose genders for themselves...