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Do you ever call-out your own side?

I know that the idea of having a 'side' is sometimes nebulous but we all have people here who we agree with on political issues in many ways though not completely. We all have identity and confirmation bias and its hard sometimes to be objective. Well, it's impossible to be truly objective but I think its good to try.

On here I have not really noticed right-wing people do that. I saw a post yesterday which called the terrorist act in Christchurch an act of self-defence. It got a heart and no push-back from anyone. I also remember a post telling a black man to stay on the plantation and it got four hearts and again no Conservative pushback. I haven't seen any far-gone things from the left which passes without being challenged but maybe that is my own confirmation bias and perhaps there are examples.

We live in partisan times and the temptation is to be tribal but I think we lose a lot if we can't call out people whom we ideologically agree with for overstepping the mark. It's good to think for yourselves too, or you might end up in a political movement which supports violence against Muslims or open racism. I don't think most Conservatives do agree with these things but I think people should say so.
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I do, to the extent that I'm not even sure I have a real side.

The thing is, in the US, that kind of disloyalty will get you tweeted about long after your dead, e.g., John McCain.

I do tend to harp on the other side a bit more, but really, what inflames me most is people who can't or won't see shades of grey, acnkowledge their own biases and faults, or accept that winning battles at any cost can destroy both sides as well as losing a war.
LegendofPeza · 61-69, M
@Budwick 'That whole Muller witch hunt built on a phony dossier, used to wrongfully obtain FISA warrants by the Obama DOJ because there was no evidence.' ..... that nonsense came straight out of Devin Nunes' ass after a Trump enema. Repeating this drivel really does you no favours.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
@Budwick
@QuixoticSoul Oh Baby Boy, you are not gonna take this well.
Take what well? I’ve spent the last two years saying that there was likely no collusion 😂 - I expect to see some procedural violations, for the most part.

Because unlike you, I’m not prone to conspiracy thinking.
Budwick · 70-79, M
@QuixoticSoul
I’ve spent the last two years saying that there was likely no collusion

Nothing factual about it - that’s just conspiracy thinking, something that often happens to far right and left nuts.

Sounds like you are all too familiar with the conspiracy against the president. But you seem to have a problem calling a conspiracy - 'a conspiracy'. Not good for the agenda? Or, is it that your realize at some point, you and your pals are gonna have to suck it up when a slew of the Obama DOJ go down in flames.
windinhishair · 61-69, M
People do things wrong, whether they belong to a "side" or no side. When someone deserves criticism, they should be criticized. I can't think of an instance where one of the hard right-wing SWers admitted wrong. Self-reflection seems to be completely absent in that group. I have seen left-wingers criticize others who share their beliefs if they go too far. I attribute this to the fact the left-wingers tend to see things in shades of gray, whereas right-wingers see things as black and white with no nuance.
SW-User
@windinhishair Those who are capable of self-reflection have already left the Republican party.
SmartKat · 61-69, F
Yes, I will call out those on my own side if they stray into outright cruelty.

However, I haven’t seen that happen.

The most I’ve felt like I needed to do was remind people that Barron Trump is a child, who didn’t run for office and has no control over his father - when I saw something poking fun at him. I don’t think that’s fair.
ZonkeyBalls · 46-50, M
My so-called "side" is always debatable. I don't see it as any kind of unchallenged truth or anything obvious, I'm a human and to err is to be human. I know, that most people here are Americans and then we have a weird mix of Aussies/Canadians/Brits... So basically people like myself and our resident dentist from Bulgaria are quite an oddity in the mix.

I don't really know, what to think about this post. Lots of stuff, that come naturally to people over this side of the pond. Sometimes, I think, certain people are just too full of themselves to understand the reality as it is. Then again, what do I know? I'm just a Finn trying to say, it's not about the length of the post, if we already know all the stuff, but merely are ignoring it. I'm 50/60, if I should love this post or not, since... Well... Some of us actually do live in civilized world.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
I could find another criticism of my left counterparts like I don't hear them sticking up for the case of grass fed farming and would like to hear more so I feel more confident in them. Conservatives are mostly running on platforms for urban farming areas but I dislike most of their other positions, this leaves me feeling at odds occasionally (not all the time.) I would prefer to get rid of industrialized vegetable mono cropping which is REALLY bad for our soil and industrialized meat farming to go back to the good old days of getting farm fresh dairy milk, grass fed meat and localized grown veggies but also getting rid of corn and soy being used for high fructose corn syrup.

Over here, in the supermarkets we mainly get our veggies from countries who have known child slave labor practices and I feel icky trying to purchase it. I really look at tomatoes with a deep suspicion these days, I'm not even kidding, I seriously want no part in exploitation.

I'm not sure if any Democrats have spoken about local farming but it bothers me I don't hear very much from them on that subject, I've heard it's because they try to focus in the cities and I think that's not very fair.
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
I have before occasionally when I find something. Veganism is closer to the left (my side of the left) and I tend to criticize them when I see something that bothers me. I get their ethical arguments but some things they say are true, others are half true and some are just outright false and deceiving people.

I haven't really been watching anything I disagree with the left on as I mostly watch seminars now and the like rather than protests and other things that are only for dramatic flair (like I used to when I was first on here.)

Those things are tricky to call out because video only tells half the story. There's sometimes you can make up your mind and then other times it's found out that it was only half of what I saw so I feel like I can't trust myself to know what's going on enough to criticize anyone.

Take the MAGA pro lifer boys and that one Native American, far righters say that the MAGA boys were completely innocent and I have to admit, I was taken aback for quite awhile on that one. Then I saw another video that surfaced when a MAGA boy told a girl when discussing something about their pro life stance (I assume) "It's not rape if you enjoy it!"

They were also screaming at girls and just being rude.

The things is the media does a great job at portraying them as victims but other video evidence including what they were there for (pro life) shows they were there for an agenda, like everyone else.

So that's one case of where it gets tricky on video 🤷‍♀️
SW-User
Trumpists are very united and have learned not to call out their own side for the sake of unity. And what is there to call-out? They are the party White Supremacists. Of course, "our side" can't be terrorists! As you know, all terrorists use some form of the "self-defense" argument.

About our own side, I've called out the progressives several times. Hey, OAC accused people like me, moderates, as having a "meh" attitude about life. Thanks! I called out Omar and got serious push-back. Didn't convince anyone of anything.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@SW-User It does also seem that there are differences of opinion on the 'left' that don't exist on the right.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
I have tried to intervene when logic is not met. To my own detriment. I got abused and people often become racist. A good friend got pushed off this site the day after what happened. Because all muslims should apparently die. Peoples brains go to mush in these events and it becomes increasingly difficult to challenge and to dampen.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@Gangstress I'm still so fucking mad at the shit that she had to put up with and although I miss her I totally get why she deleted.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
@CountScrofula I tried to reach out to her. I dont know. I think she doesn't like me I should have done more ya know.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@Gangstress :( Seemed like you got along pretty well! That said she's deleted before and that's a decent indication she may return after this has settled down.
WalksWith · 56-60, F
Every chance I get! I hold people that represent me to a very high esteem.
SW-User
I would in the real world. Most of the time I steer clear of political debate (sic) on here.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
It's been a while since I've done that, and I've been avoiding politics for the most part for a while on here, but I did once, just before the election. Someone was being really obnoxious, engaging in name-calling, and making our side look bad. I said something, and she accused me of being on the other side. And then she kept on with her rant, so I just bowed out because I knew that things would just escalate further if I kept trying to talk to her.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@TeresaRudolph71 I got called a Trumpster once for calling our a fake news article. The article was ridiculous but it was anti-Trump and got a load of hearts.

I'm not a Trumpster, LOL.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@Burnley123 Ha yes, it's interesting how some people will think that you're on the other side if you question something that they're saying.
TrashCat · M
Despite my moronically inciteful profile name, I am quite capable of holding my own opinion from a left-leaning libertarian standpoint. For example, the Jessie Smollet debacle was a joke and Hillary should be drawn and quartered. I personally blame her and democrats for Trump.
Let’s ask this...Has any conservative criticised conservative douche, Jacob Wohl for going to the police with fake death threats??? Plodding through the political landscape of America, I have chose to remain an independent because I refuse to align with any party. As the OP has mentioned, rarely do you see the right step up and take their own to task for their behavior. I see the left all to often bowing down and eating their own, but I rarely ever see the right do the same with those within their ranks.
SW-User
@TrashCat Beto apologized for making a self-deprecating joke about not taking care of his kids! It was pathetic as was the criticism of him.
TrashCat · M
@SW-User I saw that. He is not my first pick, but there is some unfair criticism of him as well
I have. There are things my “side” does that I downright disagree with, like turning a blind eye to people breaking existing laws, and legislating around those laws so that they can’t be enforced. I don’t see that helping anyone longterm and it’s actually hurt several people.
I call outlet wrong when I see it no matter which "side" it's on. And I do agree at least in part, with you views on confirmation bias, but I would add tgat it is often a double edged sword. Not only does it prevent people from calling out wrongs on their own side, it can often blind people for seeing those on the opposite side policing their own.

You mentioned two examples of horrible/racist posts that were hearted and unchecked. First of all, you have no way of knowing whether the hearts came from people on one side or the other. I hate to break it to people but racism and islamaphobia exists on both sides and is far from a right wing or left wing issue.

Secondly, I have seen dozens of posts over the years wher3 people have been called out by people they considered allies. So it does happen.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
I am an ideas kind of person. I criticize those whose ideas I disagree with and congratulate those whose ideas I agree with.
BabyLonia · F
I don't think of things in terms of sides. Racism is not political and classless I certainly have experienced racism from all types of people.

As for those hearing such posts. I see that too. I see people posting about such horrible stuff and others hearing. This is at its worst when you see posts about child abuse. I remember seeing a post about a user saying how wonderful it was to be raped and saw a friend had hearted that post. I did call them out on this sort of stuff but now feel that ì am fighting a losing battle.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@BabyLonia I think racism exists across the political spectrum but its more prevelent on the right, particularly the Trump/brexit nationalist end of the right.

I know Labour is accused of anti semetism but I've called people out the times I've seen tropes on SW. I've also told off friebds for being rude. It's like I I've picked up habits at work or something. 😜
BabyLonia · F
@Burnley123 but what I am saying is racism is not political. It is a prejudice felt by a person, regardless of political belief.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@BabyLonia I don't disagree but certain political views and racism are adjacent.

If you are against immigration then it's a political view. However, racist people are more likely to be anti immigration. Chicken and egg.
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Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@LvChris You once called me out for using a meme. Lol. 😜
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Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@LvChris LOL
Budwick · 70-79, M
Of course I do.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Yeah, absolutely. I'm pretty vocal about somethings I see on the radical left I intensely dislike but I think part of the problem with the left is that we can't agree on the damn time of day, lol.

But regardless the conservative response to the Christchurch shooting has been really chilling because similar tragedies in the past had a little more basic human empathy.
joe438 · 61-69, M
I see democrats (all factions) often misquoting people intentionally to make a point. It weakens the argument you might otherwise have had. Yes, I call people on that. There's enough stupidity out there without your making stuff up.
DonHobag · M
@joe438 I will call you out on this.
People on both sides misquote
joe438 · 61-69, M
@DonHobag They do indeed. The question said "your own side" so I was commenting on calling out my side. If the other side wants to make lame misquotes and look like fools, that's fine with me.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
Yes, for rampant fence-sitting.

But I definitely shit on the left and right more.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@QuixoticSoul On SW, you do seem to support the left in practice. You heart my posts anyway.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
@Burnley123 That’s mostly because things are so unbalanced here - I spend the rest of my Internet time mocking tankies and chapocels on reddit 😂. I come here because reddit conservatives aren’t even trying to peek out of their safe spaces where any dissent is banned on sight.

I’m a digusting centrist tbh, under normal circumstances both right and left hate my positions in almost equal measure. But in the Trump era, I start to look left to the faithful.

And I’m a natural contrarian, if SW was lefty-dominated, I’d pitch in more on the other side.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
@QuixoticSoul I disagree with you. 😜

 
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