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Do you ever think that maybe the reason you don’t completely open up to someone

And reveal the “real” you, is because deep down you know if you did, you wouldn’t be compatible?
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LadyBronte · 56-60, F
No. It's because I refuse to be hurt again. I nearly didn't make it through this time. I won't take the chance of being hurt that badly ever again.
@LadyBronte so where does that leave you with future relationships?
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Ghostinthemachine Leaves me with an inability to connect with anyone again.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@LadyBronte That has been stolen from me this time.
@LadyBronte you are allowing what this person did to you, prevent you from having meaningful relationships in the future. I don’t think you should let this person that hurt you, continue to affect your life moving forward
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Ghostinthemachine I'm honestly not sure how to fix what he destroyed. And even if I did manage it, I know I couldn't live through anything like it again. I almost didn't this time.
@LadyBronte I’m so sorry. Sounds like you were blindsided.
Have you tried talking to someone?
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Ghostinthemachine I was blindsided. He lied to me right up until the very last minute. And he was a tremendous liar. I have spoken recently to one person. Both if us suspect counseling might be necessary to find any peace and healing.
@LadyBronte I think you should give it a try, you have nothing to lose, as someone has already taken so much from you.
You have to start finding ways of taking your life back
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Ghostinthemachine I think the first step is caring if you have life back or not.