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So...What do you think about checking each others phones?

Is it toxic lol? Many people say you shouldn't do it because it's a sign that you lack trust. But I also feel like it's a double entendre because let's be honest. If you have a problem with your partner exploring your phone, doesn't that mean you have something to hide? Idk. What do you all think? My ex and I didn't have this issue. He had an android, and I had an iPhone. So we would use each other's phones for different reasons. We had each other's passwords to everything as well. Out of human nature/curiosity, we've both gone through each other's phones lol. Albeit it was only once or twice. I personally don't like people going through my phone because my search history is a little wild. Not going to lie...
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LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
That's right up there with checking someone's purse or wallet for me LOL
I usually carry 2 phones, one is personal and the other is usually provided by my clients and there are some really questionable things on them that would be misunderstood, out of context. Even by a significant other.
I (personally) don't have anything to hide, but if I did, it'd be my prerogotative.
Being in a relationship doesn't mean complete disclosure. At least not to me.

For the record, I [b][i]used to be[/i][/b] a checker... til I found something I didn't want to see LOL