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So...What do you think about checking each others phones?

Is it toxic lol? Many people say you shouldn't do it because it's a sign that you lack trust. But I also feel like it's a double entendre because let's be honest. If you have a problem with your partner exploring your phone, doesn't that mean you have something to hide? Idk. What do you all think? My ex and I didn't have this issue. He had an android, and I had an iPhone. So we would use each other's phones for different reasons. We had each other's passwords to everything as well. Out of human nature/curiosity, we've both gone through each other's phones lol. Albeit it was only once or twice. I personally don't like people going through my phone because my search history is a little wild. Not going to lie...
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If I can’t pick up my partners phone and I use it without him freaking out, that’s a problem. But at no point should I feel good about going through his phone looking for the fucked up shit he does.
Going through someone’s things for the purpose of checking on them and what they are up to is a pretty good sign that I have no self worth and/ or the relationship is trash. And if I have no self worth I should probably walk away until I can see my worth.