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I miss my baby ☹️

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Every time I think of getting another dog she comes to mind...and I just can't. Then this stray cat started hanging around and now...I have a cat.

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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I always get another rescue pet when mine passes. It not only helps me with the grieving process, but also I know that my former little companion would want me to help one of his animal brothers once he has left this plane of existence.

This cat found you for a reason. Perhaps your old friend sent her/him?
Juvia · 22-25, F
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@DearAmbellina2113 Sometimes it feels like it. She appeared months after I lost her. She made me realize I can care for another.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
I'm sorry you lost your dog.
I currently have my first ever dog.
We were having a moment together today and a rush of emotions came over me.
One where I panicked simply because I had a sudden realisation that I would be devastated if anything were to happen to him.
I love this dog with all my heart.

I hope your new baby will help you to grieve for your old baby.

Hugs and kisses your way.
Budwick · 70-79, M
Skool - nothing will heal your broken heart faster than another pup.
Your Baby Girl would want you happy, loving and being loved.

No one can replace her of course. But a new pup to love and be loved by is the fix you need.
Budwick · 70-79, M
@Juvia This?

I'm gonna need a little more please.
Juvia · 22-25, F
@Budwick I'm agreeing with u
Budwick · 70-79, M
@Juvia "Dope" - LOL
Juvia · 22-25, F
Something about pets is that whenever you get another you know that a sad day is waiting for you down the line in the future. The day they pass.
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@Juvia That is what has me hesitating. That pain had me drinking for weeks. If I get another I'm just asking for it again. I know its kind of dumb to be hung up on that.

The little cat came as a surprise. I've always been around dogs, so I didn’t think much when she appeared, yelling for food. I made so many trips to the store to find out what she liked. It was three different neighbors feeding her, but then she started sticking to me. Now I'm her pillow lol.
Juvia · 22-25, F
@SW-User Not dumb at all. Pets are kind souls so it's easy to love them a lot.
Just work hard to not have any regrets, use this as an opportunity to teach yourself better coping methods for grief. I know it's rough but it helps to make the most of things, even pain from grief.🤗
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
Love is eternal and can give you strength.

The soul/energy of your previous pet did not disappear, you just can't see it but it is still in the universe.
You are not separated in your hearts, you are just in different dimensions, hence can't communicate.
What I know is, your previous pet most likely wants you to be happy, regardless if he's around or not.
The best thing you can do for your baby now, is live the best life you can, as contently as you can.
It is hard but you will make it.

This cat chose you - it is charming, seems good-natured, accept it - it will help you 💗
SW-User
I think your dog would be happy to know you were using all the love you have for her to give others a better life. It's good to have an outlet for that grief.
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My two friends are twelve now. Old ladies. But I am 72, so I cannot contemplate what will happen.
Iwillwait · M
Funny how that works.
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Must be a gift
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
😞 🐕

😃 🐈‍⬛
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Lol yep stray cats'll do that
smiler2012 · 61-69
{@skoolschool] granted a cat is no way ever affectionate as a dog but at least you have company from you moggy lol maybe on there terms
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@smiler2012 lol true. I have discovered the difference. Her affection is definitely on her time. I've accepted to being her new pillow.
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@Busybee333 Some days she’s just heavy on my mind. I'll scroll through her old pictures and videos just to see her. I spoiled her so much...she was my princess 😊

The little monster I accept with all my heart. I've already spoiled her, and not worrying about the later.
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