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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I don’t see it as selfish. I see it as a preference for reasons only they know.
MarineBob · 56-60, M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart thank you
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@MarineBob Of course.
Oldanglaisadverbs · 46-50
@PerfectionOfTheHeart From your experience?
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@Oldanglaisadverbs I’ve never really touched the stuff. But my dad did. He would drink alone in the midst of his depression and call me belligerent. The drinking alone was a “safe” way for him to deal with his demons without hurting anyone else, even though it hurt me to hear him on those phone calls. I never told him that though. I didn’t have the heart.