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I wish I wasn't shy in the real world

All the thoughts and feelings I express here is who I am. I come off ,I believe ,more confident here than I ever could in the real world.
It really gets me down ,because my shyness stops me from so many things and no, I can't just stop being shy.
If I could have stopped being so- I would have definitely stopped before I hit the ripe old age of 58.
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GoFish ·
I think people with overbearing parents tend to be more shy than people with loving accepting parents who allow their children to be themselves happily idk if that was your experience or not i think people are less shy when they are confident that they are loved and accepted and that their voice and opinions matter.. like an experience thing? Idk i think shyness is a self protection self preservation thing a kind of fear or others and their opinions in a negative way.. my neighbors probably think im weird because im shy irl at times and a total recluse who is always hiding 😒 perhaps blocking people on here is a type of shyness.. 🤐 i think i blocked you several times in the past few days because i took offense to some things you said but i unblocked you because you were talking to someone else and i didn't want to interfere with the conversation but then i blocked you again when i saw a post you made that personally insulted me tho .. i felt guilty afterwards and unblocked you.. i’m probably too block happy in avoiding negative influence and personalities 😐 but im trying to be better .. i haven't been very christian the past few years but i’m heading back now to be more jesus focused .. sorry if this is a long comment 🤐😳
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@GoFish well there was 10 of us in the family and only two of us are shy -so?
GoFish ·
@Justmeraeagain oh there were five of us i guess i was shy but my lil bro was far from it lol idk about the others so i guess other factors are involved 😅
I'm the same. 😔
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@MsSwan it's difficult I'm okay if I'm talking to one or two people you get more than that in a room I'm lost
@Justmeraeagain It's difficult for me even with one or two people sometimes.
There's nothing wrong with being shy.

It takes all manner of people in the world.
contrails · 56-60, M
In my case is not shyness, it's full-on social anxiety. I avoid people like the plague. I used to think I was just "shy" but eventually realized it was much deeper. It undermined any chance I had at success or prosperity.

 
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