I'm Actually Quite Shy

I'm really starting to hate my shyness more than ever. It has become so bad that I do not have any friends at my new college and I feel overwhelmed and anxious if I dare think of approaching anyone else. I always avoid eye contact while walking to class and I just really hate my life right now. This is pathetic. Being 20 and afraid to communicate with others. To add insult to injury, I'M A COMMUNICATIONS MAJOR!

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dakinegirl

Same here. And same goes w/ when I see a guy I like. But my shyness around people is gradually fading. First of all, I ask God to help me to overcome my shyness and this 'scared' feeling. And I keep telling myself, "I can't be like this at work again." It makes me feel worse. But I realized when I said a simple 'hi' to someone, I felt better. Here's the thing: I think the reason I became like this was because when I was little, people hated me because I was extremely talkative. I became 'scared' and shy around people after realizing, becoming afraid of what they'll think of me.

thepixiestixs · 26-30, F

Prayer is the best advice. And you're so right! I thank you so much for sharing your experience and reasoning.

dakinegirl

No problem.