FlowerPetal · 22-25, F
the disrespect. 😥
meggie · F
My ex would do that, but if any man looked at me he'd fly into a rage. He did it to keep me feeling unattractive and needy. He didn't do it until after we married. No self respecting woman would be interested in a man like that.
HumanEarth · F
Thats one part of my ex right there.... Just add drug addiction part to it
That sounds really uncomfortable. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I can see why you felt mortified. You handled it the best you could, and at least it’s a one time thing.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Ick. I feel this way about mem who flirt with cashiers, nurses, or any woman who is being paid to be nice to them because it's their job.
Sir, it's their job to be nice to you. I assure you, if they weren't getting paid, they wouldn't even acknowledge you.
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Sir, it's their job to be nice to you. I assure you, if they weren't getting paid, they wouldn't even acknowledge you.
🙄
DallasCowboysFan · 61-69, M
It makes me wonder how he acts at home if he acts like that in front of his wife.
What kind of work do you do?
What kind of work do you do?
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@DallasCowboysFan I work in an office. I was commissioning some documents for them
Adogslife · 61-69, M
It’s business. Anything beyond a smile isn’t appropriate, regardless of what you’re wearing. It’s his job to maintain a sense of decorum.
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swirlie · 31-35
@Adogslife
Well, the truth is that no woman can hold any blame whatsoever for a man's ignorance and insensitivity. His lacking in those attributes are not about her but are strictly about him. Her job is to make him aware of his shortcomings by introducing consequences for non-compliance to their relationship. Her job is not to be his mother or his psychologist.
Well, the truth is that no woman can hold any blame whatsoever for a man's ignorance and insensitivity. His lacking in those attributes are not about her but are strictly about him. Her job is to make him aware of his shortcomings by introducing consequences for non-compliance to their relationship. Her job is not to be his mother or his psychologist.
swirlie · 31-35
@Adogslife
That would actually be better. I understand how everyone likes to flirt in our own spaces, on our own time, but to have a guy's flirtatious nature put in his wife's face like that... even just once, is grounds for cutting him loose and setting him free. Not vindictively, just effectively.
That would actually be better. I understand how everyone likes to flirt in our own spaces, on our own time, but to have a guy's flirtatious nature put in his wife's face like that... even just once, is grounds for cutting him loose and setting him free. Not vindictively, just effectively.
SethGreene531 · M
Appalling disrespect.
I've seen that as a bystander in more than one instance. It's disgusting, creepy, and cruel.
Whether it's done openly or in secret, it speaks of a morally bankrupt character in the deepest degree.
I've seen that as a bystander in more than one instance. It's disgusting, creepy, and cruel.
Whether it's done openly or in secret, it speaks of a morally bankrupt character in the deepest degree.
beermeplease · M
some men can be pigs but not all.....on another note i used to get female sales reps (freight companies) show up. if they were drop dead gorgeous and knew it they would dress provocatively to try to get my business...i never bought into it. that was some time ago and nowadays the ladies dress way more conservative when it comes to business
HumanEarth · F
If my other half did that in front of me. I would be making a scene for sure
MarineBob · 56-60, M
You mean I'm not supposed to flirt
Adrift · 61-69, F
To his wife, its probably like being the owner of an old Rottweiler that grumbles and growls and acts all tough.
Hes got no teeth left and most of what he does is just for show.
Hes got no teeth left and most of what he does is just for show.
That's disrespectful!
YoMomma ·
Yeah that’s really rude and in bad taste of him 😤 i hate guys who disrespect their wife 😤
StygianKohlrabi · M
were you wearing the Hilfiger number? 😀
StygianKohlrabi · M
@Jenny1234 oh so you were flashing some ankle. OMG.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@StygianKohlrabi no my pants cover my ankles! I am in an office and don’t wear anything revealing
StygianKohlrabi · M
@Jenny1234 have you tried wearing a potato sack?
jackrabbit10 · M
were you invited two have a threesome,
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@jackrabbit10 not funny
swirlie · 31-35
What you need to do is call him out in front of his wife. I do!
swirlie · 31-35
@Jenny1234
Not your style? Then who's style should it be?
The reason that guy in his 60's showed up in your office and let you experience who he was as an obtuse misogynistic male, is because he's done that sort of thing to women all his life and like you, taking exception to his behavior was not their style either. That is why he has gone so far in his life without being called-out by someone who could have nipped his behavior in the bud somewhere along the way.
Where this will end for him in a very abrupt way is when he pulls that same stunt on a woman and the woman's husband catches him in the act, in which case the police will most likely be called to the scene after the incident gets completely out of hand ...and for good reason.
Not your style? Then who's style should it be?
The reason that guy in his 60's showed up in your office and let you experience who he was as an obtuse misogynistic male, is because he's done that sort of thing to women all his life and like you, taking exception to his behavior was not their style either. That is why he has gone so far in his life without being called-out by someone who could have nipped his behavior in the bud somewhere along the way.
Where this will end for him in a very abrupt way is when he pulls that same stunt on a woman and the woman's husband catches him in the act, in which case the police will most likely be called to the scene after the incident gets completely out of hand ...and for good reason.
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Lilymoon · F
The older they are the pervier they get. So gross 😝