When a man flirts in front of his wife 👎

I met with clients today and the husband was a little flirtatious and it’s something I cannot stand when the wife is there. He was older, in his sixties. I left the meeting early and my coworker who finished the meeting just commented how the husband couldn’t keep his eyes off me. I’m mortified that a man would behave like that in front of his wife. It made me feel awful. Luckily it was a one time meeting and I’ll never have to see them again.

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swirlie · 31-35

What you need to do is call him out in front of his wife. I do!

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

@swirlie not when I’m at work though

swirlie · 31-35

@Jenny1234
Why not? Right on the spot is the best place always, simply because that's where it happened in the moment.

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

@swirlie not my style

swirlie · 31-35

@Jenny1234
Not your style? Then who's style should it be?

The reason that guy in his 60's showed up in your office and let you experience who he was as an obtuse misogynistic male, is because he's done that sort of thing to women all his life and like you, taking exception to his behavior was not their style either. That is why he has gone so far in his life without being called-out by someone who could have nipped his behavior in the bud somewhere along the way.

Where this will end for him in a very abrupt way is when he pulls that same stunt on a woman and the woman's husband catches him in the act, in which case the police will most likely be called to the scene after the incident gets completely out of hand ...and for good reason.