I will never understand

Nor do I ever want to, people whose sole purpose is to go around telling others they are living incorrectly.

If they aren't actually hurting anyone or doing any damage, what does it matter?

No one asked for a Life Police.

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Pretzel · 70-79, M

I can see the value in limited situations.

if a person's lifestyle is aversely affecting another person (like a child for example) then some intervention is understandable.

but for the most part - if someone just doesn't like the way you conduct themself - unless they are sporting a halo over their head - probably best they stfu

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@Pretzel Exactly! If you aren't causing any harm to yourself or others, how you live your life is up to you. All others need not apply.

James25 · 61-69, M

These are people who feel they have no real control over their own lives so they project that need for control onto other people's lives

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

Apart from anything else, there is often more than one way to do it right. The real trick is to avoid doing it wrong..😷

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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

@FoxyQueen I quite agree. Lessons you pay for are the ones you remember. But it is easier if you can learn from the mistakes of others..😷

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@whowasthatmaskedman learning vicariously! I love that idea! All the learning and none of the shame, guilt and embarrassment!

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

@FoxyQueen My son put me onto that one while he was in school. Later he went into change management in large organisations and has made that his career. I see the connection there.😷

Jessmari · 46-50

"An it harm none, do what thou wilt."

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

I think that deep down they want you to be as miserable as they are in life.

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@SageWanderer Living a happy life is then an act of defiance. 😁

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