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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
“God has a plan” after my dad died.
@PerfectionOfTheHeart Definitely not the right thing to say!
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@Promises Agreed
Pinkstarburst · F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I have always hated that phrase.
@Pinkstarburst It's not an appropriate thing to say at all. People have a hard time sitting in a someone elses discomfort so they speak to sooth themselves. I feel it's a hug, a gentle touch of the shoulder, a mouth that is closed and an ear that is open that is most helpful.