Is 'hello out there' offensive?
I responded this way to a dm I got. He called me patronizing and blocked me.
22-25, F
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paddles111 · 26-30, M
that's odd I sometimes get blocked for just saying hey
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paddles111 · 26-30, M
@NerdyPotato okay true but am nice I may have an odd interest and I get that but I'm not like going to force it on people
@paddles111 I'm glad you wouldn't. But I do understand that people assume you want to talk about that odd interest when you contact them, since there is not a single piece of content on your profile about anything else.
paddles111 · 26-30, M
@NerdyPotato thanks and its been a struggle lately keep in mind I have autism and I do seem to hyper focus on things
sundazzled · 22-25, F
@paddles111 @NerdyPotato every message I've ever had from a fetish profile has led directly into wanting to explore that fetish. So I never answer anymore
@paddles111 there's nothing wrong with that, with or without autism. But you'll have to accept that people will assume the message after "hey" will be about that hyperfocus and block you if they're not interested in that. If you want to talk about something else, you should be clear about that in your first message, especially with a profile like that.
paddles111 · 26-30, M
@NerdyPotato thanks
@paddles111 Maybe you could still broaden things out a little beyond spanking though??? It might help people to see that you're not as bad as you might seem.
Surely, even with hyperfocus, you still have other things that you cycle between.
Surely, even with hyperfocus, you still have other things that you cycle between.
paddles111 · 26-30, M
@HootyTheNightOwl thanks :) I well do that I know I can be very weird sometimes but I would never call myself a creep and I just want everyone to know I am a feminist and I do my interest is very consensual Manner and I would never push it on people if they don't want my interests