Can you talk about your problem(s) without someone jumping in with bigger problems like your problem ain't squat?

Their problems are always way bigger. I’ve accepted my fate.

Small problems feel big for people who don’t have bigger problems 😌

If they are real problems I am glad to listen and in some ways learn about how to approach my own...you know how it's so easy to solve other's problems but impossible to solve our own....

You can if you would like to

No because the problems I complain about really are just that. 😆

I want some of that attention…
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Seems the nature of the beast to compete on misery .

No

I try not to compare, but ultimately I do.

In my world, my problems are problems. In someone elses they are not. It doesnt invalidate our feelings.

Other than victims of war inter alia, yes.

You just perfectly described my own mother.