@shakemeup I got distracted and can't find it again :(

I also have to say being retired I had to balance my responses between two sides of me. The me now and the me working. That is quite literally a split of two personalities.

@Neuman sounds painful for those who get caught in the crossfire of your decisions though

@KiwiDan I dunno. I could see it as possibly frustrating or annoying, but if the main thing I'm looking for is a working solution... all the other elegant, pretty, prestigious aspects can be ignored. I don't think it intended 'ruthless' as in difficult on people... just uncompromising in end results and usually very unadorned.

@itsok what does that one mean?