I Think That Personality Is More Important Than Good Looks

@Tatsumi im not saying my head wouldnt be turned but danny devito would also turn my head. Lol

@kestrel Women scare me.

@Tatsumi Yes but she might still insist he needs more than good looks!

@Adaydreambeliever hahah definitely

@Adaydreambeliever She will, unless he looks like the reincarnation of a Greek God with facial structure to inspire awe and glory, with a jawline that even Jesus goes "I can't believe how I made that."

The way I figure it, women will accept physicality for physicality's sake, but the man has to be in the top ~5%-10% of all men in looks. They pass the "overall value" test with looks alone, and they won't care if he's a douchebag or anything just to get at some of that sexy DNA.

Otherwise, "good looking"--even top 25%--isn't enough and must be reinforced with other desirable behaviors to pass the "overall value" test.

@Tatsumi thats a very interesting and in depth statement. Hahah i like your scientific approach

@kestrel Thanks. That's how I nab all the sexy ladies. Bitches love science--especially! when it's generalizing womankind! :D

@Tatsumi Hmm and as the voice of experience.. I disagree.. now if he has a 12 inch dick and goes 4 or more times in a row without rest.. that *might* influence us.. but looks.. nope..

@Adaydreambeliever Baaaaaah. Perhaps you, but I think most women it applies to. Most women in my experience aren't very fond of big dicks. Maybe just for the experience or for bragging rights to say "I took a HUGE dick!" but most women I've known have been scared of big dicks and prefer like 6"-7".

That said, I also knew a guy who was known to significantly large, and he had a different chick screaming her head off at his apartment every weekend. So *shrug*. Maybe there's some differentiation in types of women.

Okay, I gotta go on a date now. -_-;; I'm going to tell her my dick is 12 inches and I can go 4 times in a row without rest. Wish me luck!

@Tatsumi the operative words there were you saying, *I* think. that's the problem.. very few men really understand how women think.. and this applies to all ages... many of them make some very glaringly incorrect assumptions and are convinced they are right.. so your thinking.. is ... just that...

And perhaps your experience is very limited...

LOL you can tell her that you have a 12 inch dick and can go 4 times (minimum!!!) but the proof of the pudding is in the eating.. so I suspect she's going to realise the truth soon enough :P

@Adaydreambeliever Frankly, I don't believe women understand how women think.

But we can go with that logic. If no one really understands how women think except women, then it stands to reason that the reason men do not understand women is because women feed incorrect or dichotomous information to men, is it not true? Men would be perfectly able to understand women if women were capable of properly explaining how women function, no?

The fundamental principle of humanity is that none of us understand ourselves. According to the Fruedian idea of consciousness, we're only aware of 10% of what makes us us. [b]No one knows themselves. At all.[/b] If you want to know how men function, ask a woman who has had a lot of success with men. If you want to know how women function, ask a man who has had a lot of success with women.

Experience is important. But another fundamental concept of humans is that we are capable of learning from the experiences of others. And if one can gain both experience with understanding other's experiences, they can tremendously magnify their understanding.

You can see that on a societal level. Women say "I want a nice, caring, compassionate man who works hard," bla bla bla. Yeah, bullshit. So, a lot of the guys do that. Then they get there, and they're like "Wtf? Women still aren't accepting me!?" That's basically Britain in a nutshell. British men are so confused about women it's ridiculous.

The proof was not given.

@Adaydreambeliever interesting thread. Sadly I’m not 12 inches, have enough trouble with what I have lol. And I do enjoy eating pudding
My experience with women is that they all are somewhat different. I do want to know what works for them. The simplest thing is to just say what she likes. As a younger man, communication sure did help