OogieBoogie · F
Ok...slow down and get a grip.
1. Life is about you AND the people in it:
You are not perfect ....and neither are they : and thats ok.
2. Everything doesn't happen perfectly : and that's ok.
3. Life is hard ,,and its chaos ,,get used to it.
4. Stop complaining - you are lucky enough to have people who love you and help you out, you could be catching the bus.
5. Life isnt about just you .....other people have needs to.
The hardest part about growing up is realising .....you need to work at this .
You need to input and drive your own path .
And that means ......NOT relying on others.
Please dont complain about people supporting you the best they can with the limits they are working within .
....you COULD be left to do this all on your own.
Be grateful for what you have ....coz as an adult ....you dont get this help - at all.
Life is hard ......harden up , or fail.
THAT'S , the reality .😔
1. Life is about you AND the people in it:
You are not perfect ....and neither are they : and thats ok.
2. Everything doesn't happen perfectly : and that's ok.
3. Life is hard ,,and its chaos ,,get used to it.
4. Stop complaining - you are lucky enough to have people who love you and help you out, you could be catching the bus.
5. Life isnt about just you .....other people have needs to.
The hardest part about growing up is realising .....you need to work at this .
You need to input and drive your own path .
And that means ......NOT relying on others.
Please dont complain about people supporting you the best they can with the limits they are working within .
....you COULD be left to do this all on your own.
Be grateful for what you have ....coz as an adult ....you dont get this help - at all.
Life is hard ......harden up , or fail.
THAT'S , the reality .😔
AISHXJIXUX · 16-17, F
@OogieBoogie Thank you so much for giving advice! I didn't really get to see the replies because i logged out of my account but it really helped me!
OogieBoogie · F
@AISHXJIXUX The transition from being young and dependent on everyone, to adulthood and being independent is a rough road - things change .
And you have to change with it.
I hope things are better and you're coping with it all .
And you have to change with it.
I hope things are better and you're coping with it all .
ABCDEF7 · M
You really have couple of problems that your parents seems to be not able to solve for you. I that case, I would suggest you to find solutions by yourself.
First you have to make better use of your time. The time you spend waiting to reach home after your school hours must be utilized in good way. If you can't manage to study in any way, you can try to find a good place to sleep(or take rest) during that time, and the wake a little late to study and complete assignments. This would take few days to create habit of sleeping in day time.
For heat, insects and all the weather conditions, I would suggest you to keep your mind cool. This will not make the outside things better, but would prepare you mentally to not over react to those conditions and keep on doing your work. You can try yoga and meditation for that, or any other mind relaxation exercise would help.
Also try to make local arrangements to make the things around you comfortable. But managing them mentally within yourself would be the key.
First you have to make better use of your time. The time you spend waiting to reach home after your school hours must be utilized in good way. If you can't manage to study in any way, you can try to find a good place to sleep(or take rest) during that time, and the wake a little late to study and complete assignments. This would take few days to create habit of sleeping in day time.
For heat, insects and all the weather conditions, I would suggest you to keep your mind cool. This will not make the outside things better, but would prepare you mentally to not over react to those conditions and keep on doing your work. You can try yoga and meditation for that, or any other mind relaxation exercise would help.
Also try to make local arrangements to make the things around you comfortable. But managing them mentally within yourself would be the key.
helenS · 36-40, F
I think many of the things you said are typical teenage problems which will go away by themselves in the course of time. But some things sound alarming, and if your family can't help you, you should try to find professional help outside your family before it's too late. Good luck to you 🌷
Absurd · 16-17, M
dont try to force to make friends, because i feel the same haha. the more your force it the more you are likely will not be able to get it. want to end my life to since i have nothing to lose and i have nothing but myself or i should say i dont even know who am i too. im paradoxical, i have those people around me that cares but i push them away haha because i believe that they are only there only temporary and in the end yourself is the only one you have so yeah