I asked a guy whether he cooks or whether he expects women to do all the work?

Is it a rude question? Because he once told me that working women manage household activities as well. It's taken as a given. So my impression of him is that he expects women to do all the work.

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Ghostinthemachine · M

Ask me the same question.

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Ghostinthemachine Ok I'm asking you the same question

Ghostinthemachine · M

@solitaire How rude! 😤

I’m
Kidding.

It’s good to get those questions and answers out of the way early, to see if your expectations of a relationship are compatible

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Ghostinthemachine Yeah, but it's not 100% fool proof. A person could pretend to be what they are not till they get you hooked for instance 🤔. Happened to me once online. Messed me up for 2 years

Ghostinthemachine · M

@solitaire Take everything with a grain of salt on here, at least until you really get to know someone

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Ghostinthemachine I knew the person for a few years. Anyway it's not someone from this site

Ghostinthemachine · M

@solitaire perhaps it’s easier online, but it happens in real life too.