Literally help

I just argued with my mother about school and stuff. She told me since i got a phone, my grades have dropped(which is not true) and my personality changed to worse. Anyways, after arguing for about 15 minutes, she just told me that i'm worthless, useless and that no one cares about me. I always felt like i wasn't enough for her, but now i realised it's true. I have had 2 mental breakdowns till now and i don't know what to do... I want to talk to my friend about this but i don't know how they will react... what should i do?

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Dv8rs · 18-21, F

Your mother will probably say she's sorry for saying that to you, it was a mean thing to say. You say that your grades are the same, so has your personality changed? Perhaps work on your personality, or at least put on a good show for your mother's benefit. No more arguing, they say that it's better to be kind, than to be right, so allow your mother to be right, and you be kind. See if that works, and avoid having another mental breakdown. No arguing.

Vasiliki · 22-25, F

@Dv8rs i wish she did say i'm sorry 2 years ago

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

@Vasiliki Damn, well if it's any consolation, I'm sorry that she didn't apologize. I hope that you haven't had any more mental breakdowns, but I would understand if you did. That's messed up of your mother to leave you hanging like that, after being so mean. I guess that makes her a certified MFer, but you know better than I.