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Literally help

I just argued with my mother about school and stuff. She told me since i got a phone, my grades have dropped(which is not true) and my personality changed to worse. Anyways, after arguing for about 15 minutes, she just told me that i'm worthless, useless and that no one cares about me. I always felt like i wasn't enough for her, but now i realised it's true. I have had 2 mental breakdowns till now and i don't know what to do... I want to talk to my friend about this but i don't know how they will react... what should i do?
Dv8rs · 18-21, F
Your mother will probably say she's sorry for saying that to you, it was a mean thing to say. You say that your grades are the same, so has your personality changed? Perhaps work on your personality, or at least put on a good show for your mother's benefit. No more arguing, they say that it's better to be kind, than to be right, so allow your mother to be right, and you be kind. See if that works, and avoid having another mental breakdown. No arguing.
Vasiliki · 22-25, F
@Dv8rs i wish she did say i'm sorry 2 years ago
Dv8rs · 18-21, F
@Vasiliki Damn, well if it's any consolation, I'm sorry that she didn't apologize. I hope that you haven't had any more mental breakdowns, but I would understand if you did. That's messed up of your mother to leave you hanging like that, after being so mean. I guess that makes her a certified MFer, but you know better than I.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
What matters is that you care about you.

What matters is that sons and daughters know their parents self sacrifices fed them and took the sxhit out their drawers as babies. That is proof they love them and have best hope for them too. So even if you think not because they say harsh things, they do care.

Other people say they care. Okay maybe some. Not all the time and not if it means self sacrifice.

A phone will interfere with your accomplishments so be careful how much you use it.
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
if they are a good friend they will get it, as they probably have seen your mom act that way to you, and you have expressed these feels before, so i say talk to your friend, but also go to a park for a bit to get away from each other then go home when tempers have lowered
eyeno · M
The big picture

In my youth I've been in your shoes.
What I did was to totally prove them wrong. What gave me strength to persevere was they're hurtful and negative words which drove me to succeed in everything I did.

Theyitis · 31-35, M
Talk to your friend about it. Or you can inbox me if you want.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
Do you speak greek?
Vasiliki · 22-25, F
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@Vasiliki να υποθέσω είσαι ανήλικη; Καταρχάς λάθος της να σου μιλήσει έτσι. Δεν ξέρω αν όντως έχεις αλλάξει συμπεριφορά λόγω αυτού αλλά δεν είναι αλήθεια ότι κανείς δε νοιάζεται για σένα. Γιατί διστάζεις να μιλήσεις στους φίλους σου όμως;

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