nods... i still get [i]"oh you're just still single because a man scarred you so much" [/i]as opposed to [i]"you're a young professional and i respect your choice to be single"[/i]
@HeteroDox I am engaged but postponed wedding because of certain personal problems and we're okay with it. But people are like [b]why are you married yet? I think your fiance is bailing on you[/b]
@JBird My X left me a day after i got home from 5 months at sea and two days before my birthday. I learned self reliance after picked myself up and haven't looked back, Any relationship i involve myself in i set the rules for, and no exception for anyone.
