Are you ready to put aside your Victim and really look within?

Criticising others is simply a way to avoid looking at the flaws in oneself.
If you're busy criticising others, you can't take accountability or responsibility for yourself.
You're going to be a perpetual victim, faulting everyone else.

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SW-User

The stories we tell ourselves create our reality

We need to be very careful what stories we choose to tell

Love your post <3

SW-User

@SW-User Absolutely. I've been there too and I am so aware of what I tell myself now.

Thank you. ❤️

Unlearn · 41-45, M

@SW-User or what if, we stop telling ourselves any stories!? 😀

SW-User

@Unlearn shhh! They aren’t ready

😂 just kidding 😘

SW-User

@Unlearn I know the qn is not for me, lol... but impossible. Our thoughts will keep coming in. We get to however choose what we let in.

Unlearn · 41-45, M

@SW-User aww...you think so? That's a topic for another discussion then. I totally feel we can do that... 😊

SW-User

@Unlearn Tell me how. I am interested.

Unlearn · 41-45, M

@SW-User it's a natural progression I think. I can stop thinking on demand. Like something bad is going on and I need to be calm, I just stop thinking and start witnessing...

SW-User

@Unlearn What did it take for you to get there? I am certainly not there yet but I want to be.

Unlearn · 41-45, M

@SW-User don't rush it. It will happen. For me it happened in my late twenties when life had become intolerable for me. My mind had turned against me. If not for this skill, I would have died or ended up in mental asylum. Thinking (negative or positive) can prevent our minds from truly resting. Our minds rest and heal in the delta phase of sleep too but then it's like unconscious meditation...

SW-User

@Unlearn Okay. Thank you. I'm definitely going to look into this more because I want it. 🙃🙏

Unlearn · 41-45, M

@SW-User You're doing well. I have seen you progress over the years. That's why I like talking to you...just don't try to force anything. It will happen naturally. It's important to be patient.

SW-User

@Unlearn Thank you. This means a lot to me.