Is there something commonly said on SW that really gets on your nerves?

What is it?

When people say 'they'll be back on another account or back tomorrow or even spread unsubstantiated rumours that someone is hiding in another account - no bich, not everyone is playing those games. Some people genuinely leave, even if they come back months/years later.

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I hate the posts where people pick on other users. I have made comments on posts like this and I am not proud of that. I feel terrible that I have taken part in a few and it doesn’t matter what these members have done, j shouldn’t have.

I don’t like them though. I have been trashed on posts like these and it’s not a nice feeling.

I understand people don’t like selfie posts here but they sure don’t have a problem with making fun of the users that choose to participate in them.

This place can be wonderful and supportive but it can also be so toxic and reading through the comments that’s very apparent,

SW-User

@iamonfire696 Unfortunately the ugliness in people (in their mannerisms and thoughts) is so apparent, it can be hurtful and toxic.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User You are so right about that. I haven’t seen this from you so thank you for that 💖.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 It is a sad state when people have to thank people just for being decent. ❤️

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User Yah it is but I also like to thank people for good things just to remind them. Don’t worry I have been called disingenuous for doing this.

I think the world could always use more good things so that’s why I try to put that out there. If you hate me for that then I guess it is what it is but I know a kind thought has made me feel better at times.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 People will always put us down for something or the other. They will always try to dim your light. Fret not, and keep shining as you are.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User Thank you and you keep shining as well