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People on this site are too sensitive and block you for no reason 馃檮

I had someone block me and send me a message saying I guess you don鈥檛 wanna talk to me anymore. I didn鈥檛 even see their previous message. I鈥檝e been ill and dealing with medical issues. We all have lives outside of the Internet. I guess some people don鈥檛 understand that. Sorry I didn鈥檛 respond back to your message quick enough that you now feel you need to block me. Hopefully you understand that life goes on outside the Internet and some of us are struggling with personal issues
Krysclear31-35, F
The real problem is that it鈥檚 not just here. It鈥檚 everywhere in society
CestManan46-50, F
People block for a ton of reasons. The most obvious one is when you argue with them or aggravate them, that happens to me a lot.
Other times they block a demograph that you happen to be part of.
Sometimes people just go around blocking random people, I know someone in real life who does that.
Me, I do not hesitate to block sex spammers. I do not need my feed clogged up with it.

But yeah, in some cases it is because someone is very needy. Perceived rejection if you do not respond fast enough. Kind of like when someone greets one person but seems to ignore you.

I think the least thought about reason though is when someone is trying to flirt online but then in a panic they block whoever they were flirting with because they do not want their lover or spouse finding out about it. The cases of "Everything was fine and he or she blocked me for no reason."
SW-User
@CestManan you are correct about all that. Thanks 馃檹
PhoenixPhailM
This is indicative of a serious social problem everywhere. People seem to have no patience or understanding, and need constant immediate gratification.

I don't understand why someone would give your post a laugh emoji.
SW-User
@PhoenixPhail think I figured it out if you want to try again
PhoenixPhailM
@SW-User Thank you. I'll give it a try.
PhoenixPhailM
@SW-User YAY!!! It worked!!!
What did you do?
Hahaha why do they PM you to block you? Happens to me too im likeeee okay feel better now?
SW-User
@TryingtoLava right lol 馃槀
Dino11M
They are definitely not the cream of the crop....
RebelFox36-40, F
I never fault anyone for not responding. Sometimes it鈥檚 necessary for all our mental health to take space. I used to get those, but just let them block. I don鈥檛 have time to respond when they want. Especially if it鈥檚 some random account.
SW-User
@RebelFox yes 馃檶 yes 馃檶 yes 馃檶 I wish more people understood this!!! 鈽濓笍
funfan46-50, M
Most importantly, we all hope you get better soon as you're an important member of our community. 馃尀

Just let the blockers 'roll off like water from a duck's back' (to paraphrase an ancient clich茅). Some members here just have an "itchy trigger/ blocking finger".
SW-User
@funfan thank you I really appreciate this 馃挄馃挄馃挄
smiler201256-60
@SW-User sorry too hear you have had health issues you are right. before they start judging and jumping to the wrong conclusions and need too be aware of all the facts
SW-User
@smiler2012 thank you 馃檹 I agree. I appreciate the understanding response thanks again 馃挀
smiler201256-60
@SW-User 馃憤 you are welcome
FreestyleArt31-35, M
Well it's the internet. Some of us be ourselves while other's can get away behind the screen talking shit or anything since there's nothing else to lose in their lives.
SW-User
@FreestyleArt for sure!! Yea people definitely get way too caught up in the internet bs. It鈥檚 like go outside people!!
There鈥檚 a misconception that social media equals instant attention or validation. Some people lose that dividing line between real life and electronic life.
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst yes!! 馃檶 you were absolutely right thank you for the response!!
BeJeweledF
I was the one who blocked someone who got mad at me for not writing back quick enough too. I like to have freedom not feel like I'm in jail.
SW-User
@BeJeweled totally 馃挴
TexChikF
Those people did you a favor . Lots of emotional and mental health instability on sites like this.
SW-User
@TexChik totally 馃挴 that鈥檚 the ways I鈥檓 seeing it too!!
SizEmUp26-30, M
Its not worth the frustration, if they block, its doing you a favor. Best with your health
SW-User
@SizEmUp thanks so much 馃挅馃槉
Eternity26-30, M
Ignore them. A lot of people who come here are socially inept and they like to make that your problem.
SW-User
@Eternity thanks I greatly appreciate this and will keep it in mind 馃檪
BigBrotha46-50, M
Too many hypersensitive MFs out there..
SW-User
@BigBrotha yep 馃憤
Yungj8736-40, M
I got blocked for asking a question
SW-User
@Yungj87 that鈥檚 so ridiculous I鈥檓 sorry 馃槥
Yungj8736-40, M
I kept the screen shot in case the person lies about it. She said her bf raped her brother I asked why and she cursed at me then blocked me @SW-User
SW-User
How long did you take to reply to them? 馃憖 Months?
SW-User
@SW-User I agree 鈽濓笍 thank you 馃檹
SW-User
@SW-User hope you feel better and recover
SW-User
@SW-User thanks I really appreciate that 馃挄
iamonfire69641-45, F
Honestly people like that are so self-centred. It鈥檚 ridiculous to expect that you should reply in a specified period of time and more so when you have been dealing with health issues and they knew that.

You are better off. I hope you start feeling better soon 馃挅.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@SW-User I have lots of health issues too and if I don鈥檛 feel like talking I just don鈥檛 reply. I get blocked for it but if it鈥檚 someone that means anything to me they know and understand.

If they still choose to block then oh well, some days I have no energy for anything extra.
SW-User
@iamonfire696 I feel that I鈥檓 the same way!! You gotta take care of you!! No one else will!! And if people don鈥檛 understand that then they can kick rocks!! 馃馃Φ
iamonfire69641-45, F
@SW-User Exactly 馃挅
SW-User
I was blocked once for not sending a thank you message for an sw gift
Yulianna22-25, F
@SW-User 馃嚭馃嚘馃尰馃嚠馃嚜 quite right! didn't the nuns teach you any manners?
SW-User
@Yulianna naw. I wanted good manners but they gave me nun










Ill see myself out 馃弮馃徎鈥嶁檪锔
Yulianna22-25, F
@SW-User 馃槀馃槀馃槀

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