My toxic trait is

When I’m not okay I will literally disappear 💀
It’s so bad lol I literally just ghost because I can’t deal with people or my emotions around people and I’m just like 😬😬 I don’t even know. It’s something I need to work on

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ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

I do that to everyone else. I can't see myself doing it to you though.

You can disappear for a bit when you need to... That's not the same as ghosting. Sometimes you need time to process because reacting to things while your emotions are still high can do more harm than good.

Honestly I can't see you ghosting me either 🤷 taking a moment sure but I don't get the feeling you'd just ghost me

Stark

@ChiefJustWalks Yeah, I think needing a little time to process and think things through can be healthy but I also need to be able to talk and be vulnerable rather than just keeping it all in and avoiding it like I typically do. Because then I get resentment for feeling like no one’s there for me when I won’t let anyone be there for me. 🙈

I don’t imagine myself ever ghosting you.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@Stark yeah that makes sense. I think with most people I typically push everyone away & close myself off. We call people friends yet we don't let them be there for us 🤷 even one of my closest friends recently asked me "how have you been a friend to me lately?" & I know she's upset that I haven't been responding to her even though she said before that she understands. It's tough sometimes.

It just that we think a lot & process things in our own heads. We appreciate empathy but we don't know how to accept it. So you just give, give, give, until you run out & close up shop