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The World Has Gone Crazy

I had a scary episode happen at the gym last night. I work out at 2 gyms on a regular basis. We all tend to gravitate to a favorite spot but it is a first come first serve basis.

I work out near 3 friends. I came to the class early and set up my weights, mat and other equipment. I turned to get a 10 lb plate and a lady tried to take over my spot.

i told her i was there first and asked her politely to move back. She refused. Seems she had given "her spot" to a friend and wanted mine for herself. she said she had stood there for years. Not true.

she took her weights and blocked me from getting to my mat. I stepped over them. She then put her 15 lb weights in my path so I could not move anywhere. If I stepped back, i would have fallen and for sure gotten hurt.

The instructor saw her and told her to move back-4 times. She refused. (her friend snickered)
The lady made reference to my age. Then told me she was going to give me covid. Threatened to cough and sneeze on me. ( I consider that assault)

The instructor finally embarrassed her in the class and said out loud that i had been there first-she needed to move. She hit the glass in the wall so hard (twice) the wall shook but still would not move.

I refuse to be bullied. I refused to move. I called the gym today and spoke to the manager. She said that she will be calling the member and if there is no remorse, she will be removed from the gym. If she continues, she will be banned from the gym chain permanently.

The worst part? My 3 friends did nothing. actually walked out. One flat out told me that she was not getting involved. Would not come to my defense at all. Would not tell the lady that i stood there for years.
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
What the hell is wrong with people to act this way, and those friends..pssshhht
SW-User
@cherokeepatti it seems the world is going to hell in a hand basket!!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User My grandma said it was headed that way back in the 60’s and I think we are there now.
SW-User
@cherokeepatti I truly believe so!! My grandma told me that in the 80s.
SW-User
@cherokeepatti people just think they are so entitled so to speak. No one else matters but them. I see it all the time!!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User yes they do, the world is dividing into those who serve themselves and those who serve others. The ones who serve themselves will take advantage of the others in a heartbeat knowing they are open to helping others in need and will use deception and manipulation to do so.
SW-User
@cherokeepatti now, thats the truth my good friend!! 😀
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User Can you imagine a world where everyone is a service-to-others type and will help one another and no one takes them for granted or takes advantage of it? So much could get accomplished in a small amount of time if we didn’t have to work against being exploited. Imagine if all the money that went to charities actually got used for what it was claimed to? That alone would be huge.
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@cherokeepatti Exactly!! Never truer words have been spoken!! 😀
Carissimi · F
We [i]are[i] there. It’s a horrible world now. No, not the world, but the people. It’s as they call it, mass formation psychosis. At least half the population has it. @cherokeepatti
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Carissimi There are some who believe that narcissists are “mentally ill” and others who believe that it’s a choice and that they can change but they don’t want to. I believe that they got rewarded early in life and don’t want to grow up and bear responsibility as adults.
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@cherokeepatti Yes yes and yes to this!!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User I’ve had several family members like this. I ended up being the worker child in the family because my sisters were indulged and manipulated to get out of doing their share. I’ve seen the process.
SW-User
@cherokeepatti oh wow!! Im so sorry you went through all that!! 🤗
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User well I don’t have the energy to deal with anyone like that now and know others. I have to put strong boundaries to stop it.
SW-User
@cherokeepatti i have alot of walls up. So, it takes a special person to come into my life for me to let them in.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User I want to help others, I guess I am neurotic that way. And that’s why it happened. But like I said I don’t have energy for bullshit. I can find other ways to help and if someone seems to be manipulating me then it’s over.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@cherokeepatti i know. honestly i am finding out who my true friends and family really are.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User iam going to have to post what else happened. fits what you say to a T.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@cherokeepatti That is my viewpoint exactly. Help others. but no more!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@akindheart one sister would pop by my place usually at lunch time when i was working at night and I’d be cooking lunch and invite her to eat. She was working in town and didn’t want to buy her lunch. She would also pop in without calling and come and visit and hint around at something she’d need and I’d share what I had with her. But after years of this once she needed a ride home because her car died on her so I took her home and thought it would be nice to visit and in less than 30 minutes she made a remark that I was wasting her time. That’s when I started waking up to how selfish she was.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@cherokeepatti whoa...whoa...that is horrible.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@akindheart I still want to help but in a way that I know will truly benefit others in need. The sad thing is that most of those people will not ask for help and that’s who I want to help. Want to make dresses for school girls in Appalachia. I can’t find the website but am looking, maybe the quarantines suspended that. . Also need to find fabric that is reasonable in price which is getting harder these days.